Opinions
Your opinion is always a belief that you hold about whatever it is you are commenting on. Your opinions are yours. Other people’s opinions are theirs. When misunderstandings occur or arguments are started they come from each persons own opinion about what they believe to be true for them. Everyone has a different belief about what it is they comment on. When you comment on something that makes someone angry the anger that the other person feels is then triggered by what you have said. What they are feeling comes from their own beliefs about whatever it is that is being said. Their reaction to what you have said is triggered by your words. People are triggered by what another person says because they are holding on to an emotion that they have not released from their body. If Mary says to Sally, what were you thinking when you bought that outfit, and Sally gets upset, it isn’t that Mary said anything wrong or mean to Sally. It’s that Sally cared more about what Mary said to her than she did about her own feelings. Sally is merely holding onto judgment of herself and when Mary spoke her words Sally felt the impact of them because she still has some issue she is carrying around that needs to be released. When you give your opinion to someone and they react it is always because they are the ones with the issue. The bottom line to any issue people carry when they feel hurt is that they are giving their power away to the other person. When you give your power to another person the issue you need to fix within yourself is about self love. When you can truly love and accept yourself just the way you are there isn’t anything that anyone can say that will cause a reaction that will hurt you. Other people are always going to have opinions. We all do. We all don’t truly mean to hurt another person when we give our opinions. Our opinions are from what we have learned and experienced in our world. Your world is not the same as any one else’s. We all see through the eyes of our own past and no two people have had the same past. If you get hurt by someone else’s opinion of yourself then you need to ask yourself what is it that you are still carrying around inside yourself that you need to release. When we can all find self love for ourselves we will be allowing our true nature to step forward and be present in our lives. When we find happiness in ourselves that is what we are then able to give. A person who is happy with themselves gives from that place inside themselves.
Angel Amy