by Angel Amy | Feb 23, 2017 | Opinions
Your opinion is always a belief that you hold about whatever it is you are commenting on. Your opinions are yours. Other people’s opinions are theirs. When misunderstandings occur or arguments are started they come from each persons own opinion about what they believe to be true for them. Everyone has a different belief about what it is they comment on. When you comment on something that makes someone angry the anger that the other person feels is then triggered by what you have said. What they are feeling comes from their own beliefs about whatever it is that is being said. Their reaction to what you have said is triggered by your words. People are triggered by what another person says because they are holding on to an emotion that they have not released from their body. If Mary says to Sally, what were you thinking when you bought that outfit, and Sally gets upset, it isn’t that Mary said anything wrong or mean to Sally. It’s that Sally cared more about what Mary said to her than she did about her own feelings. Sally is merely holding onto judgment of herself and when Mary spoke her words Sally felt the impact of them because she still has some issue she is carrying around that needs to be released. When you give your opinion to someone and they react it is always because they are the ones with the issue. The bottom line to any issue people carry when they feel hurt is that they are giving their power away to the other person. When you give your power to another person the issue you need to fix within yourself is about self love. When you can truly love and accept yourself just the way you are there isn’t anything that anyone can say that will cause a reaction that will hurt you. Other people are always going to have opinions. We all do. We all don’t truly mean to hurt another person when we give our opinions. Our opinions are from what we have learned and experienced in our world. Your world is not the same as any one else’s. We all see through the eyes of our own past and no two people have had the same past. If you get hurt by someone else’s opinion of yourself then you need to ask yourself what is it that you are still carrying around inside yourself that you need to release. When we can all find self love for ourselves we will be allowing our true nature to step forward and be present in our lives. When we find happiness in ourselves that is what we are then able to give. A person who is happy with themselves gives from that place inside themselves.
Angel Amy
by Angel Amy | Feb 23, 2017 | Change
When someone does something that you don’t agree with keep in mind that they are living their life not yours. This can mean even the smallest thing that someone else does that you don’t agree with. It can be the color scheme of their home, the way they arrange their furniture, the way they seem to appear to live their life, if you don’t agree with any part of what someone else does then take note that they are living their life and not yours. We all came here to experience the things that we want to experience. When we can keep in mind that the other person came here also to experience something different it may help you the next time you find yourself commenting on what the other person is doing or saying. Not everyone agrees on everything. This is our choice as humans. We choose the things we want to experience in the way we each want to experience them. It is up to others to experience what they choose to experience for themselves. If everyone can step out into the world and not judge, criticize or complain about what the other person is doing then we all would be able to find more peace in our daily lives. Live your life the way you want to live and allow the other person to do the same. Accept others for what they choose in this lifetime and you will be able to accept yourself in a more joyful way as well. Finding peace inside your self is about accepting yourself the way you are. Loving yourself and letting go of all the judgments you impose upon yourself. When you do this with yourself it will be easier to do this with others. This is where peace, love and joy come from. Accepting yourself as you accept others is a gift that you give yourself that flows out to the world in which you live. Start becoming aware of when it is that you can step into doing this the next time that you see someone who is doing something you don’t agree with. This is about waking up to the way that each one of us experiences our day. When we can begin to wake up and pay attention to what is really going on with our reactions to others then we will be able to see the choices we make during our day more clearly. This will allow us to live with more peace within ourselves.
Angel Amy
by Angel Amy | Feb 23, 2017 | Love
When we think of Valentines Day we tend to think of a partner or someone we love. We want to give to others to make another person happy and feel loved. Within that feeling there is something that is missing. That something missing is about loving yourself. Not all of us were brought up to know this kind of love. Some have but many have not understood that we need to love ourselves first and then we are able to love others. When Valentines Day comes around it seems wonderful for the ones who have someone to share their love with but for those who are alone on this day it just reflects to them that they don’t have a partner or loved one to share this day with. The real meaning of love comes from within, within your own heart. You don’t need someone out side of yourself in order to love. Loving yourself is one of the gifts of being alive. If you are here, you are loved. This is something that was not included when most of us were taught about Valentines Day. Feel the love you have in your heart. This is your gift, your gift for being here on earth. Loving yourself is something we all need to do. When you can love yourself you are taping into the real reason you are here on this earth. We are all here to love, to love ourselves first and then to love others. Love can only be given to another when you have found it within yourself first. So if you are alone this Valentines Day begin to love yourself. Enjoy yourself, enjoy being with you. You are your own best friend. If you have someone to share your Valentines Day with then don’t forget to look inside and give some of that love to yourself. Love is the greatest gift we have to give but it begins with giving it to ourselves first.
Angel Amy
by Angel Amy | Feb 23, 2017 | Labels
There are labels everywhere. Labels are a form of judgment. When we see someone approaching us we find the label that describes them. If they are different than us we tend to put a label on them. When you see something you don’t like you put a label on that thing. We all have a label ready to use when we see anything in our reality. If we can begin to change the labels we give to the things outside of ourselves we may be able to turn those things into positive rather than negative. Keep in mind that we all came from the same place but we are all uniquely different. No two people are the same and there are no two people having the same exact experience that you are having. What is correct for you may not be correct for another. What is in your best interest may not be in the best interest for another. The way you perceive your reality may not be the same way another person perceives their reality. We all have different ideas, thoughts, dreams and visions of our own world. Allow others to choose their own. Don’t force another person to have your same perception on life. They never will. They are not you. Only you are seeing your life in the way you see it. Others see things a little differently than you do. We are all here just experiencing our own reality. See the bigger picture when you interact with others. Allow them to have their own thoughts without judging them and you will see how things begin to flow more smoothly for you without any negative reactions to tend to. Learn to see others as a spiritual being that came here to have their own human experience just as you have chosen for yourself.
Angel Amy
by Angel Amy | Feb 23, 2017 | Fear
When something triggers you it is an emotional response. This emotion comes from a belief you are holding on to within yourself. When you react to something, anything, ask yourself what is the belief that you are holding onto that is causing this reaction. We take on beliefs of others at an early age. We are taught by others to believe what they tell us.Start questioning the beliefs that you have. Ask yourself why you believe in this. Why are you choosing a belief that has been passed down to you by someone else? Is this truly what you believe to be true or could there be another way to look at this.There are many beliefs out there that people have taken on as their own in a subconscious way. Pay attention the next time you react to something and see if you can find what you are believing in and then consciously ask yourself if this is what you want to continue to believe in.As you believe – it is delivered to you.If you believe walking under a ladder is bad luck then that is what will show up in your reality. Stop and ask yourself where that belief came from. Are you going to continue to believe in that belief that was given to you by someone else or can you change that belief.Beliefs can be changed. They are only true beliefs for the person believing in them. They are not true for everyone. If you believe that everyone in your reality is out to get you, then that is a belief that only you hold onto. It is your belief, not anyone else’s. If you believe that people think you are crazy because of the things you say and do then you are the only one holding on to that belief. By holding on to any belief you are also attracting to you the experience of that belief. You will continue to attract people in your life that will show you that this belief you are holding on to is true for you. Our own beliefs make up our reality. If you are enjoying your reality then that is great. If you are unhappy with your reality ask yourself what are the beliefs you are holding on to that you can begin to change so you can start enjoying your life.Change the beliefs that are not working for you. It is always your choice to change or stay the same.
Angel Amy
