When someone does something that you don’t agree with keep in mind that they are living their life not yours. This can mean even the smallest thing that someone else does that you don’t agree with. It can be the color scheme of their home, the way they arrange their furniture, the way they seem to appear to live their life, if you don’t agree with any part of what someone else does then take note that they are living their life and not yours. We all came here to experience the things that we want to experience. When we can keep in mind that the other person came here also to experience something different it may help you the next time you find yourself commenting on what the other person is doing or saying. Not everyone agrees on everything. This is our choice as humans. We choose the things we want to experience in the way we each want to experience them. It is up to others to experience what they choose to experience for themselves. If everyone can step out into the world and not judge, criticize or complain about what the other person is doing then we all would be able to find more peace in our daily lives. Live your life the way you want to live and allow the other person to do the same. Accept others for what they choose in this lifetime and you will be able to accept yourself in a more joyful way as well. Finding peace inside your self is about accepting yourself the way you are. Loving yourself and letting go of all the judgments you impose upon yourself. When you do this with yourself it will be easier to do this with others. This is where peace, love and joy come from. Accepting yourself as you accept others is a gift that you give yourself that flows out to the world in which you live. Start becoming aware of when it is that you can step into doing this the next time that you see someone who is doing something you don’t agree with. This is about waking up to the way that each one of us experiences our day. When we can begin to wake up and pay attention to what is really going on with our reactions to others then we will be able to see the choices we make during our day more clearly. This will allow us to live with more peace within ourselves.
Angel Amy