Affirmations for Health
Every Cell in my body vibrates with energy and health
Loving myself heals my life. I nourish my mind, body and soul
My body heals quickly and easily
Affirmations for Abundance
I prosper wherever I turn and I know that I deserve prosperity of all kinds
The more grateful I am, the more reasons I find to be grateful
I pay my bills with love as I know abundance flows freely through me.
Affirmations for Love
I know that I deserve Love and accept it now
I give out Love and it is returned to me multiplied
I rejoice in the Love I encounter everyday
Affirmations for Romance
I have a wonderful partner and we are both happy and at peace
I release any desperation and allow love to find me
I attract only healthy relationships
Affirmations for Weight Loss
I am the perfect weight for me
I choose to make positive healthy choices for myself
I choose to exercise regularly
Affirmations for Self Esteem
When I believe in myself, so do others
I express my needs and feelings
I am my own unique self - special, creative and wonderful
All my relationships are loving and harmonious
I am at peace. I trust in the process of life
Affirmations for Joy and Happiness
Life is joyfull and filled with delightful surprises
My life is filled with love, fun and friendship, all I need do is stop all criticism, forgive, relax and be open.
I choose love, joy and freedom, open my heart and allow wonderful things to flow into my life.
* I release my need for financial insecurity
* I am financially secure
* I am surrounded by loving, giving people
* I release my need to feel needy
* I have everything I want or need
* I release my fear of wealth and wellness
* I am healthy and wealthy
* I allow myself to prosper
* I trust that I will create abundance
* I have more than I need in every area of my life
* I open myself to receive the abundance of The Universe
* I release my need for debt
* I am solvent
* I am safe and secure
* I enjoy a steady flow of positive energy
* I am loved, accepted, acknowledged and appreciated
* I have the resources to develop my creative expression
* I am success
* I freely express my creativity
* I am living my dream
* I have plenty of time and money
When I hear of someone that has passed, is passing or will soon pass, I get a different feeling than others do. When I hear of a death, after I get my selfish ego out of the way, I do feel peace. Because I understand that the person who has just passed away is on his or her way home and they are no longer in pain. That person will be re-united with previous family members who have gone before him or her. They are free of the struggles that occur here on earth. They are no longer questioning the why's of humanity. They now see all the answers they had questions to while living here on earth.
Their soul is now free and has entered the kingdom of heaven. It suffers no more. When we wake up and become aware of what is truly happening it just makes more sense. From reading Dr. Michael Newton's books, Journey of the Souls and Destiny of the Souls, I have learned that every thing that happens to us happens for a reason and we are all exactly where we need to be at this very moment and for all the moments to still come. It is human for everyone to feel hurt, compassion, sorrow and anguish and to even question why. The real question here is not why did this happen, but how can I understand better the real reason this happened. When questions arise it just means we do not understand. It means we are searching for an answer. When we do understand something there is no reason to question it. If we can just understand why people die when there seems to be no good reason, if we can just understand that part of it, then maybe that will help us.
I believe that before we came down to earth we had a conversation with God. We told him what we wanted to learn while on our journey through life on earth. We picked several things that needed to either accomplish or that we need to learn. We chose the people in our lives. We chose them while we were still in heaven so when we came to earth they would be here to help us learn our lessons. We chose our family. Every single person in our family agreed to come to earth to help us on our journey.
So for the tragedy that happens for no reason, well it really does have a reason. A tragedy can either make us realize something or it can solely be for the experience of those involved. We need to see it not as a personal attack on ourselves or for the tragedy to make us feel guilty of anything. It is a life lesson that someone needed to go through and that all parties involved already spoke to God about the tragedy before coming into reality here on earth. This was their path they were on and no matter what we think or feel that we could or could not have done to save them, this still needed to happen. It needed to happen in the very way that the ocurrence took place.
The person's life purpose had been completed and now its soul needs to return home to heaven. Their time on earth has been completed.
Death is also our Soul's Birthday into Heaven. It really is a time to celebrate this person or people who have passed and to be happy for them and happy to have known them even if they are leaving us. They are entering into the unknown and it's a new beginning for them. It is their Birth into eternity. To me that is a wonderful place to be.
If we can look at death that way it may make it easier on those who are grieving and cannot accept what has just happened. If we can say it was a blessing to have known that person and my life is better because of that person, that is truly a gift we need to cherish. It is not for us to question or judge. It is up to us to deal with what happened and trust that God knows why this happened and that the person's soul is now safe and back in heaven where it belongs. If we can truly understand that God did not do this to hurt any one of us. It happened as it was planned out to happen. This is where we can find peace inside ourselves.
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It took me a while to get the forgiveness thing. I never understood what everyone was talking about nor did I know the impact it really does have on my well being until just recently. I have finally come to understand the meaning of this word.
When we don't forgive someone for hurting us it does cause us pain. The anger or resentment we hold for that person attacks our body not the person we think we are hurting. It's a normal reaction to want revenge, or hold a grudge. We all have done it or are still doing it. But the reality of this word forgiveness goes much deeper than we think.
Because we hold feelings that are not of love, these feelings manifest themselves inside us and eat away at our bodies. The anger or resentment we have towards someone else just mirrors back at us and that is when illness is born.
These feelings take on a more powerful meaning than the words we use to describe the person who has hurt us. The words turn into feelings of hate and it is those feelings that attack our insides, not the insides of the other person. It's all because we are not seeing through our eyes with love. If we could only take our blinders off and see. We need to start looking at those that hurt us in other ways so we can get past these issues of hurt. If we can truly look at a situation and understand that not everyone thinks the same way we do, not everyone responds the same way we do. If we can understand that much of it, we could be on the path to forgiveness. We don't need to excuse the act of what has happened to us, but we need to forgive the person for not knowing what they have done to us. They do not know what they have done. They truly don't and if we can stop and understand that, then we could see more clearly that when people hurt us that it is just a reflection of the hurt they already feel inside of them.
Why is forgiveness so hard for us to do? Because we are human and this may be one of our lessons we need to learn. But we need to learn it in order to get past it. We need to learn the lesson so we can move on with our life. So it doesn't get inside of us and cause illness and stop us from living the life we are meant to live.
After I learned what the word forgiveness actually meant I took a look at everyone around me and everyone in my life. I was able to let go of a lot of junk that was inside of me that was not for my highest good. I looked at everyone that had hurt me and I finally understood. They did not hurt me on purpose, they did not really mean to hurt me. They were hurt inside themselves and their anger was just being pointed in my direction and the trigger was being pulled by their emotions, not mine. When I could understand that, it was then that I could forgive them. I was able to forgive the people who hurt me for they did not understand themselves what they were actually doing.
I am now able to live in a world of much greater peace and love than I had ever dreamed of. The life we are meant to live is that of love and compassion for each other. If we can love and understand our neighbor then we have also been awakened to the way God wants us to live.
#46
How do I best handle being stuck on a train and getting frustrated as I try to make my way home?
The best way to look at any situation that is causing you any kind of emotion other than peace, is to look at what this experience or incident is trying to show you.
Understand, that the more frustrated you get the more frustration you are attracting into your reality. It’s when you can find peace in the moment of frustration that you can see clearly what is really going on.
The frustration you see out there is nothing more than the frustration you are having in there, inside yourself. You have allowed something to get to you and upset you and frustration is the emotion that it is showing up as. Ask yourself what or who are you frustrated at? Is there something inside yourself that needs to be released? Maybe even forgiven? Follow the trail inside yourself until you can see what it is that is making you frustrated. The answer is not the train being stuck.
This experience is not the root cause of your frustration. It is not about causing a delay in your life, it is all about allowing something to trigger your emotions before you got on the train, something that happened to you before this. Something that found its way to you that you did not release. Something you let take hold of you that is not for your highest good. Something like a judgment that you are holding onto. Something you may be trying to control. We cannot control anything other than the way we view our experiences. Whatever it is that is making your feel frustrated, you need to acknowledge it and release it and you will then be able to release your frustration and find peace again.
When you are in a peaceful state inside yourself, the mere act of a train being stuck will not cause you to feel frustration. When you feel peace and something like that happens you will be able to see that it is something you cannot control and you will be able to accept it and wait patiently for the problem to resolve itself.
When something like that happens it is nothing more than an opportunity for you to look inside yourself. When you are given that kind of an opportunity, do not pass it by for there is great rewards for those who choose to look inside themselves.
Enjoy the moments of peace that you find when you are stuck on a train. Find the peace and see what happens as you are there in the moments you patiently wait.
Ask yourself then, what is it, that I now see and feel?
Angel Amy
#45
How do I know if I am on the right path? How do I know I am making the correct choices for where I am heading?
To make the correct decisions for yourself in life you need to listen to your heart. Ask yourself, what is it that you have passion for? What have you always wanted to do but have put off doing? Now is your time to do it. Make a decision about what it is that you truly want to do in your life and get clear on your decision and take the first step to get the energy moving.
Toss away any doubts you may have and get rid of the fear you also have. You can do what ever it is you truly want to do. When you follow your heart you will be lead to your next step. You must stay in a good uplifting place in order to sail through to your destination with ease. If you allow fear and doubt to take control that is when you will be confronted with obstacles. The more you can move forward in self confidence the more your journey through this path will be filled with enlightenment and amazement.
When you have fear going on, that is nothing more than your ego getting the best of you. Fear is a belief that you hold that tells you that you cannot do that which you want to do. When you have fear, that is what is reflecting back to you so you can look at the fear and move through it. Your fear is what is making things harder for you. Because what you are thinking when you have fear is that it will be hard and you cannot do this. Your fear is mirroring back to you your lack of being able to do what you want to do.
When you have fear, there are blocks that will appear in your reality to show you that you are in fear. When you can recognize the blocks, know they are only there to let you know that it is only your belief being reflected back to you.
Don't be afraid to fail. Failure is only the label you assign to an experience you have that you feel was not good enough. That is not failure, it's just having an experience that you went through, nothing more. When you stop judging your experiences you will be releasing so much guilt that you carry around for no reason.
When you are in confidence knowing that you can do what you set out to do, there won't be any blocks mirroring back to you and that is when you will begin to see doors suddenly open for you. These doors are showing you that you are on the right path.
It is only when you are following your hearts desire that you are walking on your highest path for this lifetime. The more you follow your heart the more you come into balance with your true self. Your true self is a spiritual being that is here for the experience of life and sees no restrictions.
Angel Amy
#44
Why after years of loosing a loved one we do not cry as much. Is it because we forget how they were and how much we love them because after a lot of time has gone by our mind helps us forget, and that is when we begin to heal?
One of the reasons we incarnate into this reality is to heal certain things, certain issues. We are not meant to be sad forever when we loose someone. Death is all in how you view it. Some people see death as a Soul's Birthday into eternity, others see it a bad and horrible thing.
You hurt from loosing a loved one because you loved them with your heart and now you feel that love has been taken away from you. It really hasn't been taken away, you just view it as that. In reality the love that you have for your loved one only grows more strong and more deeply as time passes on. Love is not meant to hurt, love is meant to heal.
When we loose someone we love and feel sad it is only that we are coming from the reality level. We are feeling our emotions from an ego place which is what most humans do. It's when we think of our loved ones from a much higher level that we see and understand that death is not a bad thing but the best thing for that loved one. Time helps you feel this.
You never forget your loved ones, you just learn to accept their passing on a higher level as time goes on. You understand more of the meaning behind their reasons for why they were here. Do not judge yourself because you do not shed tears for your loved ones anymore, you most likely have grown since their passing and with that growth comes healing.
Nothing has changed since they have passed except the way you see their passing. You learn to love the memories of them and not dwell on the ego's way of thinking anymore. You have learned to accept the process of this life that you have been given on a much deeper level and you find compassion in having been a part of their life.
You see, when you love from your heart all things are possible, even healing.
I invite anyone reading this to share with me in sending up a prayer to all our loved ones who have passed before us.
Dear Heavenly Father, I thank you for welcoming my loved ones back into the heavenly kingdom where they now glow with the eternal light of who they truly are. I thank you for your guidance in caring for them. I understand more fully that their time on earth was well spent and had great meaning to myself and others. It is my intention that they now feel this love that I carry with me in my heart and I offer it to them so they can heal as they reside in heaven and I can heal as I continue my journey on earth, until I see them again. Amen
Angel Amy
#42
Will God forgive all our sins? Even the ones we deeply regret?
If you have asked this question to yourself then it can mean nothing more than your perception of God is not of the highest and purest of thinking.
God does not judge us. We judge ourselves. We came to earth for this experience and to work through earth challenges for the enlightenment of our soul. We are not held accountable for our actions by God. We created our experiences and we are the ones who will judge ourselves when the time comes.
God does not see good or bad experiences happening. God sees experiences happening. God sees the growth in each experience that we have. It is our earthly teachings that have taught us that what we do is good or bad. It has been the teachings of people before us who were not enlightened and have taught us from a place of ego.
If we learn something from an experience, it is a gift. It is not good or bad, but a gift that we were allowed to go through in order for our soul to learn something from that experience.
When you judge yourself for making a decision that you see as bad or wrong or just plain not good, you are the only one who judges that. All God wants from you is for you to have experiences from what you created.
So to answer your question about something you feel you have done wrong that you have deeply criticized yourself for, No, God is not judging your actions in the same way you are. You are hurting yourself with your own judgment of what you have done.
When you can move forward with your life and find your way to the spiritual path of enlightenment that is available here on earth, you will find the meaning to your question to be nothing more than that which you create you will end up judging.
We are here to have experiences for our spiritual growth. This means good and bad. They are experiences we need to have to fulfill our mission for being here on earth to begin with.
It is important for you to forgive yourself for having an experience that you are the only one judging, just as it is important for you to forgive others for having experiences that only they themselves will be judging.
God loves each and every one of us equally and he does not judge the experiences that we have chosen to go through for this lifetime.
Angel Amy
#41
I was always brought up to think with my head and not my heart. I am hearing now that we need to live from our hearts and not our head. Which way is the way I should be living from?
When we live from our hearts we are following our path to the divine essence of who we really are.
It is only when we follow our hearts and release our fear of not being taken care of that we see divine intervention coming forth. We will be taken care of when we find our true path. When we find our true path that is when life just keeps pouring forth miracle after miracle.
Have you ever asked someone who is living their life doing what they think they should do, if they are truly happy? Their response is usually that they think happiness is found out there somewhere but they cannot seem to find it and they keep on living the way they think they should be living and neglecting the way they feel they should be living.
Have you ever asked someone who is living, that which is in their heart, if they are happy? Their response is usually that they have found happiness and live it every day.
Things don't work out for those who are not living from their heart because they are not on their highest path. They are not on the path where they can find happiness. They have taken that detour because they are living what they have been taught, and that is, that if you want happiness you have to work hard for it. If you can begin to change your thinking here just a little you would see your life would begin to change.
When you live from your heart life just finds its way to you and you find all that you are searching for. If people can just let go of holding onto what their ego is telling them, they too would be able to find happiness. When you can allow life to give to you and not strive to take from it, you will find happiness.
Loosen the grip you have on life, just a little each day, and watch your life unfold in a miraculous way.
Angel Amy
#40
How do I allow people to be who they are and not get upset with what they do?
In order to allow others to be who they are you need to look at them in a different way than what you have been accustomed to. You need to change your thinking.
When you have the understanding that we all came to earth for our own reasons and no two people are exactly alike, you may be able to see a little better. Look at others and know that what you are seeing is nothing more than your perception of them. Allow them to experience life as they see fit just as you are experiencing your life as you see fit. There is no right or wrong here. We all are having our own experiences on earth for our own spiritual growth.
Accept the fact that others are different from you. Being different is what makes our experiences unique. We are all here to do our own work. When you can look and see this in others your perception of them can then change.
You have to be willing to see life in a different way if you want to see it differently. If what you are seeing in your reality is not making sense, change your thinking. There must be a better way of viewing life than through your eyes that are judging other people. When we stop judging we can look past all the fog and truly see the other person and the qualities in those people.
Can you honestly say you want others to think, speak and act the same way you do? Think about that one. If everyone wants to wear a blue shirt and black pants and have the same haircut, don't you think that would be boring? We are here for an exhilarating experience of life. We are all here being different people doing different things.
We all came from the same place which is from Spirit, we all have the same mission in life which is to have a joyful experience, we are all heading in the same direction, which is to a better place, we are all just taking different paths to get there. When you can allow others to have their experience the way they are meant to have them you will have acquired the Art of Allowing in your daily life to become your example of the way you now live your life.
Allow others to be who they choose to be and do not judge the path they are on. When you judge another you will find others will judge you.
When you allow others to be themselves you will find your world becomes a more peaceful place to live.
Angel Amy
#39
I try to be social with people but I just can't seem to connect with anyone. Why do I feel like I don't fit in anywhere?
There are many people on this earth and every one of them are different. You are searching to connect with people but your real search is to connect with yourself.
When you realize that this is why you feel so discouraged you can look at what is going on with yourself and start to connect with yourself. When you do connect with yourself you will then find you are all of a sudden becoming happier. You will find you do not need others around to connect with. You are only searching for something you had all along. You just didn't know where to look for it. All any of us truly need in this lifetime is ourselves.
Society has everyone manipulated into thinking we need someone else to be with. We don't. All any of us need is to find happiness for ourselves. No one else. We each have the right to find our own happiness in the way we each feel we need to find it. It is a true challenge for people to accept and be happy with just them selves.
If you can find peace and happiness within yourself you will find you don't have the need to connect with others.
When you do find you have connected with yourself you will find your hearts desire. When you find your hearts desire there will be people who will suddenly begin to show up that will want to be with you. This will all happen because you have chosen to look inside yourself for what you were searching for instead of looking outside yourself. You will then begin to notice that seemingly impossible doors begin to open for you and you will have found a new way of life.
When you try to be social in order to find happiness, you are not following your hearts desire and you are giving away your personal power. We can only truly live in happiness when we choose to live our hearts desire and the first step to getting there is to listen to your own heart. Do what your heart wants to do so that you can find happiness.
When you find your hearts desire and start living it you will see your life change in ways you cannot even imagine. That is when you will have found your true purpose for this life time.
Listen to what you want to do and do it. Do not listen to anyone else. They are here for their own reasons. You are here for yours.
What is it now that you choose to do?
Angel Amy
#38
Why is it that when we loose someone our friends don't say much to us but when they loose someone it seems like the world comes to an end?
Everyone is living their own life in different ways. Sometimes when friends don't say much to you after you have lost someone, it's only because they truly do not know what to say. They are acting out of how they would feel if it were to happen to them and they are not clear on what to say that would comfort you at this time.
If when your friends loose someone and they make you feel like it is the end of the world, then in their eyes it feels like the end of their world. It is hard for someone to convey words when they see you go through something that would feel like the end of the world to them.
If you take this situation in a negative way, you will only be causing yourself more pain. Do not allow the actions of someone else to make you feel less than you truly are. Do not allow them to take away your personal power, which is what you do if you allow their actions to cause you pain.
Do not judge their actions. They are only living from their reality. If you look at the situation and not expect what someone else cannot give to you, you will not be causing yourself pain. The loss you are feeling for your loved one is your experience to go through not theirs.
Some people have the ability to show their feelings so others can find peace in their words, others do not have the same ability. Do not judge them for not saying anything.
Your expectations of other people responding in the way you think they should is an act of giving away your personal power.
When you allow another person to hurt you it is only because you do not feel your own self worth inside yourself. It has nothing to do with the actions of another person. It is always because of your own self worth that you feel for your self that causes you pain.
What you think of yourself is what reality will show you. If you think of yourself as unworthy, the world will show you more reasons to feel unworthy. If you feel worthy the world will show you more reasons to feel worthy.
When you have your personal power in control and you feel worthy, when someone says something to you that is negative you will not see the negative side of it, and it will not bother you. What happens then is you will be allowing the other person to speak from their reality. That is all you will then be seeing.
We each choose the way we feel about our own situations and experiences. When you choose to look inside yourself for your own happiness the world you see outside of yourself doesn't look so bad.
For each negative thought we have there is always a positive one. You choose which way you want to look at it.
Stop looking for your own happiness in someone else.
It is not in them, it is in you.
Angel Amy
#37
I try to help people so they can find happiness but I cannot find it for myself. Why not?
You cannot find happiness because you are not happy within yourself. You keep searching for happiness out there somewhere. That is not where happiness is found. True happiness comes from within your own being.
If you are not happy ask yourself, who are you taking care of? If the answer to that question is someone other than yourself, then your search for happiness will continue. If you want to find happiness you have to start with yourself. You cannot take care of others until you can take care of yourself first. After you have taken care of yourself, you will then find you are in a much better, happier place to take care of others. It all starts with you.
Most people think they are here to take care of others first. You came to earth to have an experience for yourself. Along with your experience you find others that you interact with. You can only interact with them in a peaceful way if you understand that your well being needs to come first.
One of the most important lessons we all need to learn in this life time is to take care of ourselves and we will then be able to find true happiness.
Here is an example:
You cannot help someone with their life until you have worked on your own life. When you try to help someone else before you help yourself you move yourself into a place of chaos. When you do this, it lowers your energy inside of you. You cannot help someone else who is feeling down if you are down while you try to help that person. All that is, is two people feeling down and nothing will get resolved.
When you are in a place of being happy and content and you then try to help someone who is down, you can then uplift that person into seeing their issues in a much better way. You are able to shed light on that person and on some level that person feels it. You have then encouraged that person to start climbing out of their down and desperate feeling place and come up to a much better place.
If you feel down and negative and you try to help someone who is down and negative you are only able to give more negative emotion to the conversation.
If you are happy and content and you try and help someone who is down and negative you are then able to uplift that person into feeling a little bit better.
What you feel inside yourself is what you will be sending out to another person, which is why you need to work on yourself first before you can help others.
When you take care of yourself first you find the happiness you are searching for. Finding happiness in this world comes from you, not someone else.
What you think and feel about yourself is what you give out to others.
Angel Amy
#36
Why is it easier to tell a lie than to tell the truth?
People lie because they are afraid to show their true selves. People are afraid of judgment. All the things we are afraid of are the things we need to overcome.
When you are afraid of someone you give away your personal power. When you have control of your personal power you do not care what others think of you and you are more able to live in peace a lot better than those who do not have control of their personal power.
For when people have control of their personal power, they will not let anyone's opinion bother them in any way and they will find it easier to tell the truth more often. They find they do not need to lie and are not afraid anymore.
The ones that lie to get what they want and hurt you in the process, they are able to hurt you because you have allowed what they have said or done to have an effect on you.
When someone says something to hurt you, it is not the act of their speech that hurts you, it is how you feel about what they say that causes you pain.
If someone calls you stupid and you believe you are stupid it will hurt you, right?
If someone calls you stupid and you don't believe you are stupid it doesn't you, right?
Now the person saying you are stupid in both cases here, has done nothing other than give his opinion of what he is thinking and seeing. If you believe it is true, it hurts. If you don't believe it is true it doesn't hurt. Same words, but each sentence has a different meaning because of the belief you have of yourself.
If you can live your life from a place of total knowing that the way you are living your life is the best way for you, then nothing anyone says can ever hurt you.
When you have control of your personal power and someone calls you stupid and you believe you are stupid, those words will not hurt you. They won't hurt you because you are not allowing the opinion of another to have any effect on you.
Now if someone lies to you, you can either see it as something this person is saying to hide from their own fear and brush it off and ignore it, or you can look at it as a personal attack on you and get upset at this person for lying to you which will later on cause disruption down the road for both of you.
Whatever we look at, outside of ourselves, we have the choice to see in a way that empowers us, or disempowers us. We all have that choice.
People who lie are only missing out on themselves. They are only covering up the real person they are. Someone who lies may have chosen to come to earth to clean that issue up. They may be here for just that reason, to overcome their fear and to stop lying.
If you can remember this the next time someone lies to you, you will be able to look at them in a different way when they speak that lie to you.
When we change the way we look at things, the things we look at change.
Angel Amy
#35
Why do some people get all the breaks?
What you have just done, is to compare your self to someone else. Anytime you do this you are giving away your personal power to that person. You cannot compare yourself to another person and live in your own reality. When you compare yourself to another you are then placing yourself in their reality. We all have to live in our own reality. It is when we do not live in our own reality that we find confusion in our lives.
It is only your perception that you are seeing that sees someone getting all the breaks. Each one of us has our own reasons for being here. You can only look at what is going on in your reality in order to be happy. If you look at another person's life and see something you wish you had, you will find you will be living in that person's reality not your own. This is where your life will begin to go off track.
The phrase "Your opinion of me is none of my business", applies here.
Your opinion of someone else should not matter. You need to stay within your reality in order to live your life for yourself. When you start comparing your life to another persons life you are chipping away at your own self worth.
There are many reasons each one of us has chosen to come to earth. We all have different goals we want to reach, different ideas and different lessons. There are no two people on earth that have the very same life experiences to live out. Every one of us is unique in our own way. Every one of us has our own purpose for this life that we have chosen to live.
It is only your human perception that makes it seem like what you are seeing is better. No one is better than another and no one is less than another. We are all equal people with different tasks to accomplish in this lifetime. We all have come here fully equipped with everything we need in order to accomplish the experiences we have chosen for this lifetime.
If you see another as being better than you or getting better breaks than you, it only means that you are allowing your opinion of yourself to be less than you really are.
When you can look at another person and see that all is in divine order and be happy for the good experiences they are having, you will be allowing yourself to walk your own path. As you allow yourself to walk your own path you are then allowing others to walk their own path. This is where peace on earth begins.
When you look at another person and see something other than perfection you are looking through your human eyes. When you look at another person and see the perfection in them, you will then be looking through your spiritual eyes.
We are spiritual beings first. Spiritual beings that have come to earth for a human experience.
It is your choice to choose how you see your life unfold for you. You can choose to look at another person and get upset over what you are seeing or you can choose to see that the good fortune they have is a part of their life purpose and be happy for them. When you can see the good in what you are seeing in other people you will be allowing yourself to walk in your personal power and as a result of this you will find peace in your reality.
You have that choice.
Angel Amy
#34
Do our beloved pets go to heaven and will we see them there?
Yes, every living thing that has a soul goes to heaven. When your beloved pets pass on they go to heaven just like humans do. They are there to greet you when you return to heaven as well. While they are there waiting for you they are able to still come around you. People can't always feel their presence but they come to you and they do try to get the message to you that they are with you.
This is where sensitive people have the upper hand. Sensitive people or people who listen to their inner guidance can sense a loved one around them more so than people who do not listen to their inner guidance.
If you are open to hearing messages they will do all they can to get a message to you. Be open to the messages and they will continue to show you they are with you.
You will find that a lot of animals incarnate and come back to be with you in another form. It could be the same type of animal or it could be something different. Each animal is different and each animal is here for its own reasons, just like we are.
The best thing you can do for your beloved pet who has moved into spirit is to let them go. Be thankful for the time you had with them and understand that you will be with that animal again. It is just like with people, if you love your pet so much and find their passing to be such a burden that you cannot find peace, they too will hang around on a spiritual level and try to comfort you until they feel they can leave you. This is not for their highest good. They need to be able to move on into the spirit world for their own sake. If you can find it in your heart to let them go you will be allowing their soul to be free to continue its journey.
It is all how you see things that will make the difference. Try to look at your pets passing as a gift from God. Your pet was here with you for a certain time in your life to give you something that you needed during that time. When they have accomplished their mission on earth they need to return home for their own evolution. Be happy for them, be happy they are home in heaven where they too can find peace.
You will see your beloved pets again. They do not forget you. They will be waiting for you.
Angel Amy
#33
How can we communicate with our loved ones that have passed on?
We communicate through our heart, our mind and our beliefs. All you really have to do to communicate with them is to close your eyes and picture them. They are there. If you believe this, you have it. If you do not believe this you don't have it.
When you call their name, they show up. They will be around you. Invite them to visit you. If you believe they will be there, they will be there. If you don't believe they will be there, they will still be there but your belief in them not showing up will cause you to miss the experience.
Some people are shown the presence of a loved one by actually seeing things that happen. Such as pennies from heaven. If your loved one knows that you believe in this, they will make this happen. It could happen with anything you believe in. If you ask a loved one to show you a sign that they are with you, they will come through with that sign. You have to believe they can do this and you have to watch for their sign to show up. It will show up. You have to be open to seeing the signs for they will come to you in the most unusual ways.
You could be going through the cannels on the TV and suddenly see something that has meaning to you of a passed love one, that is their sign. You could hear someone in conversation say something, as you pass by them, that has meaning of a passed loved one, that too is a sign.
The signs show up in different ways. You could be reading something that you know has meaning to your loved one. You could see a picture that has a special meaning of your loved one, a special flower, a special bird, a special phrase, a special food, the list goes on and on. If you see something that reminds you of a loved one who has passed on you can be assured that it is a sign from them. If you believe it is, it is. If you do no believe it is, you will miss that experience only because of your belief that it cannot be.
They are with us whether you believe it or not. It is up to you to decide if you are willing to believe or not believe.
Be open to seeing the signs and you will see them. The spirit world loves to communicate with us. We just have to be open and willing to see the signs they do send to us.
Angel Amy
#32
It seems every time I get into a conversation lately, I seem to be getting them mad at me, How can I get along better with people?
You start by allowing others to walk their own path. When you can really get the concept that we all came here for our own reasons, you are then able to look at your friends, family, co-workers, neighbors, everyone in a different light. If you take a look at one of them and really try to see things from their point of view, which is really hard to do because you will never know all there is to know about that person. Such as their upbringing, the way their parents treated them, the pain they went through as children, the humiliation, disappointments, the challenges they were confronted with etc.. You truly can not know what another has gone through. Many people you see today, that you look at and see as happy, really are not happy at all. Again, you don't know what they have been through thus far on their own journey through this life.
Every one of us has had different teachings we have gone through. Different experiences that no one else can really understand unless they too have gone through them. Sometimes we forget to stop and really look at the people in our lives and understand that they are not on the same path as we are. They are a part of our journey but we have no idea what path they are taking to complete their life missions.
All it takes to get along with anyone is to understand they have their point of view, from the experience life has shown them thus far, and you have your point of view from the experience life too has shown you thus far. And both experiences are very, very different. If you show compassion instead of trying to be right and pushing against what you feel should or should not be done, you will be able to get along with others a lot better.
No one is right and no one is wrong. We just have different opinions because of the experiences life has shown us thus far. You are right in your mind, but the other person is also right in their mind. There is no wrong about anything. It is all just one persons point of view from their life experience thus far. When you can allow the other person to have their opinion and not try to make them see your point as the right one, you will not be having any kind of disagreement about anything. All that will be taking place will be two people sharing their opinion of what life has given to them thus far. Allow the other person to speak what he wants to speak and listen with an open heart. If you can then speak without being defensive, there will be no tug of war going on. When people do not get defensive when having a conversation, the words between two people are not harsh anymore.
When you can allow the other to walk their own path you will also be allowing yourself to walk your path in a much easier way. Compassion and understanding are all it takes to truly live in peace.
We all have the same goal in mind. We all want to be loved and happy. So the next time you find yourself in a conversation that you find is not going in a positive direction, stop and think about that person and the parts of that person that you know nothing about that are the driving force behind what is being said.
Have compassion and understanding and allow the other to speak without judgment and you will find you will start to get along with people much better.
Angel Amy
#31
Happy Valentines Day
I always thought Valentines Day was for lovers. For people who are married or have a special someone in their life. But that is not just what Valentines Day is all about. It's all about love. Love is a powerful word that is filled with so much emotion.
When we love, we give. We give a feeling that is inside ourselves. We open our hearts and allow the feeling to flow to others.
Everyone needs a little love. Everyone. Love starts with our selves. We can only give love if we have love inside ourselves. We give what we have. When we have a loving heart that is what we are able to give to others. When we give to another we also give to ourselves. That which we give always comes back to us.
As this Valentines Day approaches lets prepare ourselves to give from our hearts that which we have. Give your love to your family, your friends, your neighbor, your co workers, the people you pass on the road, the grocery store clerk, the bank teller, the mailman, the other person at the other end of a phone conversation. Everywhere you go, on this Valentines Day, it's an opportunity for you to give love to someone. There is not one place that you will go, on this day or any other day, where you will not find someone to share what you have in your heart. There is always someone there for you to share the kindness that your loving heart has to offer.
Don't let this Valentines Day pass you by without offering someone a small loving gesture that can only come from you.
A true loving gesture that comes from the heart not only makes the other feel good, it also makes you feel good.
Happy Valentines Day to everyone.
Angel Amy
#30
I am having an issue with my friends at school. They aren't very nice to me but still want me to hang around them and they are always asking me to do things. What can I do to feel better about my friends?
Your issue is not about your friends, it's about yourself. The friends you have are just showing you that which you feel inside of yourself.
If you don't feel that good about yourself you will attract friends who show you just that. They will be showing you that you don't feel good about yourself by being the kind of friend that you just don't like being around.
If you do feel good about yourself you will attract just that, friends who you do like being around. It's all about your self worth.
For instance..
If someone wants you to go somewhere on Friday night and you go even though you really don't want to go but you do because you don't want to miss out on the fun, well, you end up having a horrible time only because you went with the people you are not liking.
You didn't listen to your self guidance. You gave away your personal power. You need to be willing to pay the consequences for your actions. You need to take responsibility for your actions. If you go out with people you really don't enjoy being with, you will not have a wonderful time. But if you go out with people you do enjoy being with you will have a wonderful time.
If people you don't enjoy hanging around ask you to go somewhere, then don't go. Pay attention to what your excuses are for wanting to go in the first place. If you do decide to not go then you truly need to be at peace with that decision. You cannot have any regrets or guilt later on or you will find you are out of balance with yourself and right back where you started, not feeling good inside.
When you go places with people you really don't enjoy being around you are only giving away your personal power and you will end up feeling miserable anyway.
If you look around and you see that the people you are hanging around are people who just bring you down or just make you feel worse about yourself rather than better, then you have a choice.
You can either continue to hang around with these people and be brought down, criticized, manipulated, etc., etc. and eventually loose sight of your self worth all together or, you can work on your self worth which in time will bring you other people who you will enjoy hanging around. It is always your choice of what you decide to do.
You have to understand you are the only one who can make you happy. Others do not make you happy, they just add to the feeling which you already feel inside yourself.
You attract what you feel about yourself. If you feel unworthy inside yourself you will be attracting people who show you just that. They will make you feel even more unworthy of yourself. If you feel good inside yourself you will attract more people who make you feel good inside yourself.
These people will be showing you that you are worthy by your own self worth feeling that you now feel for yourself. You will then find people who think in a positive way and who enjoy being around you. It's all about what you think of yourself.
If you think positive you attract positive people. If you think you are deserving, you attract deserving people. If you think you are friendly you will attract friendly people. You have to know it and believe it. Try repeating this affirmation; I now have nice, friendly, fun, kind people in my life to hang out with.If you can get that concept and work on it you will find you are able to find the kind of people you do enjoy having in your life.
Always remember the phrase, "Your opinion of me is none of my business". If you can live by that no one will be able to take away your personal power and you will be amazed at how wonderful you begin to feel.
Angel Amy
#29
I am about to get married for the 4th time. Why have all my previous marriages ended in divorce and what am I doing wrong?
You are doing nothing wrong. There is something in each marriage that relates to all the marriage's you have been in so far. The answer to this question is one of the reasons for your being here on earth. You will be able to halt the divorces once you clear up the issue that is inside you that keeps coming to surface.
When things like this happen, we as humans, think there is something wrong. There is never anything wrong with what we are going through in order to learn what we came here to learn. It is all part of our spiritual growth.
If people could stop judging what they are going through as good or bad they would be able to release a lot of guilt that does not serve any purpose. If people can change their thinking of the things they see as wrong, and change them to just experiences they are meant to go through, they would not be carrying around the guilt that destroys their spirit. All that has happened to you by going through your past divorces is just something that is being shown to you that you need to work on and release so you can find happiness with the person you plan on now marrying.
Situations that keep appearing in you reality are just showing you what you need to work on in order to be the person you came here to be. There is no right or wrong. It is an experience you need to go through in order to get back on track. If you can look at your situation that way, you will be able to take the failure part out of this equation and feel so much better about your past relationships. They are just showing you something.
In order to find what it is that these experiences are showing you, ask yourself, what is the same thing that happened in all of these relationships. What is it that kept appearing to you in your reality that made you get a divorce?
If you look at your past situations you will see the pattern that is there. Once you identify this pattern you can work on releasing it so this marriage will not end in divorce. Once you have resolved the emotional reason for the breakup you will have removed that emotional issue from your future partner.
It could be that you felt you didn't deserve true happiness, it could be that your insecurity caused the other to find other companionship in another, it could be that your dominating personality caused that person to see something other than what they married in the beginning.
Take the thing that bothered you the most about your partners and turn it around and you will find your answer.
If the other didn't love you enough, the situation was only showing you that you needed to love yourself. It is only through not loving ourselves that we are faced with the people who show us just that. So once you learn to love yourself you will find people who are able to love you. Lesson learned.
If the other abused you, the situation was only showing you that you needed to stand up for yourself. It is only through your feelings of allowing others to walk all over you that you are faced with abuse, so you will learn the lesson of standing up for yourself. Once you conquer that emotion you will never again let anyone abuse you. Lesson learned.
If the other made you feel unworthy, the situation was only to show you that you needed to take back your personal power. It is only through your feeling of worthlessness for yourself that attracts people to teach you to find your self worth in life. Once you have truly found your self worth no one can take anything away from you. Lesson learned.
Your next step is to forgive everyone involved in the learning of your lessons. This means the other people in your experiences as well as yourself. For it is no one's fault. It has only been part of your plan for self advancement while here on earth. If you can try and grasp the meaning behind going through those horrible experiences in life, that it has only made you a better person, you may be able to move forward into a more fulfilling relationship.
It is all about you. There is nothing wrong with any of your partners. They were just there to show you what it is you needed to work on in this lifetime.
Once you find your reason for all your divorce's you will be able to come into balance with yourself and you will then be able to find a mate who does stay, for that person will be showing you that you have conquered the main issues that were once the cause of all the other partners in your life to leave.
Once you have conquered self worth there is nothing that can hold you back from reaching your hearts desire.
Angel Amy
#28
I don't seem to have friends that I get along with for any length of time. I am lonely and enjoy doing things but I need someone to do them with. Why can't I find someone to enjoy my life with me on my level?
You are searching for someone to accompany you on this path you walk. What you need to do is to start searching for the inner you. Once you can do this you will find that you do not need anyone to complete the person that you are. We are all perfect, whole and complete just the way we are. It is when you search outside of yourself that you cannot find your happiness for it is not out there. It is not in the face of a friend. It is found inside of your own being.
The very sentence that you state saying you are lonely is the very first indication that you have not found the inner you. When you find the inner you there will be no need for wanting someone outside of yourself. You are only lonely if you are unhappy with the person that you are. When you can accept the real you, it is then that you will not be lonely.
You need to become more in balance with yourself. When you can find your balance you will not be lonely anymore and you will find you can get along with anyone. You need to find the friend in yourself. You are your best friend. You only think you need someone else in your life because you are out of balance. Find your self worth and you will find the inner you that will bring you back into balance.
To find your inner self you need to understand that you are the most important person in your life. You need to keep your personal power. You need to understand that you are the only one in charge of your life. You need to listen to your inner self and make your own decisions that are right for you. You need to understand that everyone you meet is in some way part of a learning experience for you to learn something from them. Good or Bad. It's all meant to be. When you can truly understand this, you will then be able to hold onto your self worth. Your self worth plays a big part in the way you feel about yourself. Once you can master the art of self worth you will find you can conquer anything, even hanging out with yourself.
When you can stop relying on the company of another person to fulfill your purpose and happiness you will be learning the art of self worth. Happiness is not found in the other person, true happiness is found in yourself. You are the only one responsible for finding your own happiness.
When you meet someone that you think you like and the relationship turns negative later, it is only because you were searching for your happiness inside that person and not inside yourself. When you find happiness inside yourself then the other people who come into your life will stay. For its not their approval you will then be searching for, you will have then found it in yourself.
Once you have found yourself, no one can take anything away from you. Your experiences with people will then change and that will not be because all of a sudden others begin to like you, it will be because you have found your own happiness and the true source of it. When you are truly happy you will then see happiness in others and they will also see the happiness in you.
When you can say the following words to yourself and live by them every day you will then be taking the first step to reclaiming your personal power.
****Your opinion of me is none of my business. I choose to live my life for myself and no one else. I am whole and complete just the way I am. I accept the me that I am. There is nothing wrong with me and nothing needs to be fixed. I am here to learn from the life that I am living and I am willing to accept that all is in divine order.****
When you can understand that those words are very powerful and can help you find the true being you are searching for you will then be in balance and you will find you do not need to search for someone to give you happiness anymore. You will then be able to see that the person you were searching for was inside of you the whole time.
You will be able to live a much more fulfilling life and you will have taken back your personal power. When you truly live by those words you will find that you will then bring forth others who do wish to hang around you.
Angel Amy
#27
How can I best walk my path while I am on earth?
When you are happy living your life you are on the right path. It is only when you are unhappy with your life that you are then not walking on your path.
If you can look at the experiences you have already been through and see if they made you happy or not you will be able to go forward in a much better way.
If you are unhappy with your accomplishments in life thus far and want to get on your path then you must realize that something needs to change. To really change you have to look deep within your heart and find out what it is that makes you happy and find a way to take that first step towards it. You cannot be on your path if you are unhappy. When you find yourself happy you will then know you are on your path.
A lot of people keep searching and searching to find their path. They are unaware that as long as they are living a happy life, they are walking their path. There does not have to be this big reason for which they are here. Some of us are just here to enjoy the ride. Some of us have obstacles to overcome. Some have disappointments that are nothing more than reaching for something that is not taking you on your path. When you can accept your defeats and know that they were not meant for you to win, you will then be able to take the next step to finding your path. If you can accept that the things put in your way on your path are nothing more than signs to show you to take another route, you will be moving towards your path.
When you stop fighting everything that happens to you because you think it's what you are meant to do you will be releasing the burden of that which does not serve you. When you can accept life as it is and know you are being guided along the way, and you pay attention to that guidance you will always remain on your path. Your path is meant to be enjoyed and not rushed or pushed in anyway. Life is a journey. We are all meant to stop along the way and smell the roses. For that is what gives us our strength to move forward on our path.
Accept ------ That which you cannot change.
Forgive ----- Anyone who hurts you including yourself. Your enemies are actually people who are here to teach you something about yourself. Do not think of them as the enemy, think of them as your teachers.
Love ----- All whom you come in contact with as you were meant to meet them.
Trust ----- Your heart with all your questions.
Willing ----- Be willing to change your life when you see you are not happy.
Receive ----- Be open to receive. To stay in balance you need to receive as much as you give.
When you can let go of your resistance of allowing life to unfold as it should you will then be walking on your path.
Angel Amy
#26
How can I stay on the right path as I move forward into 2010?
Staying on your path requires you to pay attention to your feelings. Pay attention to your intuition. When you listen to your intuition you will find you are able to move forward with your life in a much easier way.
One way for you to stay on your path is to develop the art of allowing other people's opinions to slide off of you. You have to become aware of what you want and you have to be willing to go through any obstacle to get it, without the opinion of anyone else. Your opinion is the only one that matters.
When you can understand that you all came here for your own experiences, you can then be free of all the ridicule and remarks of other people. You are not here to live in someone else's reality. You can only live in our own reality.
Even though we all have the same goals in mind, we all go about reaching them in a different way. If you can remember this when you are confronted with someone who doesn't think quite the same way as you do, you will then be allowing that person to live in their reality and you in yours. You will find that there will be no need for disagreements. For when you allow someone to speak and you acknowledge that their opinion of what they think is ok for them, and that you do not get into the big debate over who is right and who is wrong you will have then kept your own personal power to yourself. You will not have taken away the personal power of yourself or the other person and you both will then be able to walk away from the conversation in a more powerful way.
This happens when you stop trying to prove to the other person that you are right and they are wrong. For everyone is right in their own mind. That which we think is right for ourselves in our eyes, may not seem right in the eyes of another.
An argument is nothing more than each person trying to get the other person to see that what the other is thinking is right. So when you stop trying to get someone else to see that you are right and start believing that you are right without the opinion of another you will find you have conquered the art of staying in your personal power.
An argument comes from one person pushing their opinion on another person. If you can stop and listen to the other person's opinion and realize that what they just said is totally correct for them and their own experience here on earth, you may be able to have a more peaceful conversation. When you can stop trying to prove to the other that you are right and they are wrong you will then be on your way to making the world a better place to live. You will then be able to find more peace in your daily life.
You will be then working for the greater good of all.
Angel Amy
#25
Happy New Year!
As we leave 2009 lets all take a moment to look back at it. When you look back, what is it that you really see? Can you see pain, stress, anxiety, fear, and disbelief or can you see compassion, forgiveness and love for yourself and your family. Some of you can see the positive but a lot of you can only see the negative. As we move into 2010 let us be aware that all growth is good and as we move forward in time we move into a new place in our lives.
2009 was an experience for each one of us. It was an experience that we needed to grow from and if we choose to we can see the positive in all our situations. There is always something to learn from any experience, good or bad. If we choose to look at the good that came out of the bad we may be able to see it clearer and understand in a better way why we needed that experience to appear in our reality. If we can look at the moments that were not good, let's ask ourselves, what did I learn from that experience?
Our Journey here on earth is all for a higher purpose. A purpose you are not able to see with your human eyes at this time. If you can remember that in the midst of your confusion, it may help you stop and think. It may help you get through your rough times a little easier.
Pick a phrase that you can say to help yourself get through those tough situations. Keep that phrase with you in your mind and say it often.
Here are some examples to help you.
I understand I cannot see all there is to see in any situation.
I understand if I can look at the other person with loving eyes this situation will change.
I understand I am perfect just the way I am and nothing needs to change about me in order to please anyone else. Your opinion of me is none of my business.
I know I am on my own path and I will find my way with my own intuition.
I will not allow anyone to take away my personal power. I hold it within my heart.
That which is seen is temporary, that which is unseen is eternal. I hold the thought of Heaven in my mind and in my heart at all times.
I understand my happiness is found on the inside of my being, not out there somewhere.
You give what you get.
You become what you think you are. Your thinking has changed you into the person you now are. Whether that is positive or negative.
When you stop searching for your hearts desire outside, you will notice it was inside of you all the time.
I choose to put on a smile in the morning as I start my day so I too can begin to help others feel better about their day.
There isn't anyone out there who knows me like I know me. I am the only one who knows what is best for me.
I now choose to be in a positive attitude as I walk my path on earth. I know that all obstacles are just challenges for me to learn from.
There is nothing bad in my life. Everything I used to see as negative, I now see as an experience I needed to go through in order to learn something on a higher level. All negative things can now be turned into love if I can find the purpose for them. If I can choose to look at my experiences and understand that I did learn from them and that I now see that what I thought was negative really doesn't seem so negative anymore.
We all have the ability to change our thinking. The question is do you wish to change your thinking so you too can live in a more peaceful world? A peaceful world starts in your mind. It's all in how you view your world that makes your world.
What are you now willing to choose?
I wish you all a very Happy, Healthy New Year!!!!
Angel Blessings to you all as you enter this new experience of your lives.
Angel Amy
#24
Weekly Christmas Message
Christmas is the Birthday of Jesus Christ. With that comes unconditional love for everyone. All we have to do is believe in that love. If you can truly believe in the love he has sent and will continue to send to each of us every single day, it may help you get through life a little better and with a smile on your face and with love and joy in your heart.
Christmas is about love, it's about believing that there is love in our world, even when we don't see it as we look out towards this great big world in which we live. If we believe in love we can find love in any person, place or thing. In all situations there is love to be found. We have to change our thinking in order to find it sometimes but it is there. If you can believe it you will find it.
Christmas is also about Santa and the word Santa is about believing. He is the thought that we hold in our minds that helps us to believe. All we have to do in any situation is reach for a better feeling thought. For that is where we begin the healing of the thoughts that we think we cannot control. We can turn those thoughts into good thoughts if we choose to believe.
Believe in the impossible, for it is possible. Believe in miracles, for they do happen. Believe in unconditional love, for it is there. Believe that all is not shown to the ones who walk the earth. Believe there is more out there than we cannot see with our human eyes. Believe your Angels are with you day and night. Believe that God has you in the palm of his hand, for he does. Believe that God loves each and every one of us the very same, for he does.
Believe that you are a Divine Being of God and you have come to earth for a very specific reason, so your soul can evolve to a greater place.
Seeing isn't believing. Believing is seeing. When you believe, you will see.
I am sending Angel Blessings to all of you, for however you celebrate this holiday. May you all find the peace, joy and love in your hearts that is there just waiting to come alive.
Merry Christmas to everyone everywhere!
Angel Amy
#23
Weekly Christmas Message
Christmas time is here to help remind us to stop and remember why we are here. We are here to love and to give. We are here to help one another. This also means to love and give to ourselves. We cannot give love and happiness until we are happy first. We cannot give to others what we do not have inside ourselves. Those who do give of themselves at this holiday time have already found the Christmas spirit. They have that love inside of themselves that others are searching for.
Those who do not give openly at this holiday time have not found the true spirit of Christmas inside themselves. They are unable to give because they do not know how. They do not know how to open their hearts and give unconditionally.
When I speak of giving, again, I am referring to the gently smile you give to someone in need. The holiday hello that could make someone's day. I am not referring to the dollar bill that we all have. Money is not the only source of wealth. True wealth comes from a loving and giving heart. It does not come from the wallet.
"That which is seen is temporary, that which is unseen is eternal". 2nd Corinthians 4:18
We know not what our neighbor is going through at this time of year. We know not the powerful meaning behind a helping hand or the uplifting conversation we can share to help someone through a rough time. Those are the most precious things that we can offer at this holiday time. Having someone there to turn to when you don't know what to do or having someone there who understands what you are going through can mean the world to someone who is having a rough time.
We all have so much to give but most of the people think they are suppose to look into their wallets when it is time to give. That is not where giving comes from. Giving comes from the heart. That is where the true meaning of Christmas is found. When we can all find that love in our hearts and share it everyday throughout the year that is when we will find the peace and joy we are all searching for and it is then that we will have Heaven on Earth.
Angel Blessings to you all for a wonderful Christmas time.
Angel Amy
#22
Weekly Christmas Message
One of the comments I received from my first Christmas Article was from someone who stated how it would be a much nicer world if everyone treated others with Christmas love everyday throughout the year.
That is what life is all about, loving each other including ourselves, everyday not just Christmas Day.
When you stand in your own personal power you come from a place of love. When you do not stand in your personal power you are allowing the outside world to dictate that which is going on. The outside world is outside of you. When you can look at life this way you reclaim your personal power. When you reclaim your personal power you do not allow others to change that which you feel. When you find your personal power you understand there is nothing that can come into your reality and destroy your happiness. For when you find your personal power you honor and cherish it. You are more able to shed the negativity that goes on out side of yourself and you are more able to feel only love.
Those who are in alignment with their personal power only see the good at Christmas time. They are happy at Christmas time and do not allow anyone take away their Christmas Spirit. They do not allow the outside world to come in to their being. Their being is filled with love and this love acts like a barrier to all negativity. They hold this Spirit within them all year round, not just at Christmas time.
If you are one who still sees all the commercialization at Christmas time then it is time for you to work on your personal power so you too can find that Christmas Spirit. Find something that makes your heart sing, something that makes you happy, something that does not come from a store but from your heart. It's ok to give to yourself as well at Christmas time. When you give to yourself and you become happy you then are able to turn to others and share that happiness. You cannot give true happiness until you yourself are truly happy.
The world we live in does have a lot of good in it. When we can start to focus on the good that is what we will start to see more of. Good always overcomes bad. Be positive not negative. When you start to be positive with your life you will notice that things all of a sudden start to change for the better. You will then start to truly see the good that there is in the world.
The more you look with open eyes to see the good, the more you will see. The more you see the good the more you feel. The more you feel good the more you become aligned with your true spirit. We all have spirit inside of ourselves.
If we all just give a little more love this Christmas time we will be living in a much nicer world.
Angel Amy
#21
Angel Amy is giving messages of hope and inspiration for these next four weeks of Christmas to help you keep your Christmas Spirit alive.
I will continue with my questions after Christmas.
Now that Thanksgiving Day is gone by we are now rolling right into the Christmas season which brings up a whole new set of feelings that some of you may be having a hard time with. Just like Thanksgiving Time we will still hear people say, that it's not what it used to be and has gotten way to commercial for anyone to enjoy.
I am again reminding everyone at this Christmas time to hold onto your own personal power and not let anyone or anything come between you and how you want to spend your Christmas season.
If everyone keeps saying the same thing about how the Holidays are too commercial, the spirit of the Holiday fades. It falls from your heart. You allow this to happen when you listen to all the negativity that you are confronted with. If you can all turn this around you would find the spirit of the season and it would help you heal the negative feelings some of you feel at this time.
It's all about believing. Believing in what you truly want. All any of us truly want, is to be happy. Sometimes we get so caught up with living our lives we forget to look at ourselves and see what is really going on. When you find yourselves feeling down or sad, the best thing to bring yourselves back up is to help someone who is feeling down or sad. If you are feeling lonely, give something to the people you see as being lonely. Give from your heart. Give a comforting word. Give an encouraging smile. When you give, stop and notice what you get. If you listen to your heart you will then hear the true spirit of the Holiday Season.
Not all good things come from the wallet. How hard is it for us to truly give from our hearts at the Christmas Season? When you give from your heart you will find what you are giving to someone else has just been given to yourself. What we give to others reflects back on us and we feel the same feeling the receiver is feeling. Other people are put in our path just for this reason sometimes, so we can open our hearts and give to them so we can feel the love we are sending. Have you ever truly given from your heart and felt bad? When I give from my heart I get that deep, deep feeling of love and gratitude that is just so overwhelming that I cannot hide it. That is where the true Spirit of the Season is. In your hearts. Sometime you just need a little help to see it.
I am asking all of you to take the time this Christmas Season and give something from your heart to someone. Give to someone who does not expect anything from you. A stranger that you see that is less fortunate than you. Can you give them a handshake and wish them well, can you give them a smile. A simple smile can mean the world to someone who has less than you do. A simple smile, a simple hello, a simple happy holidays means so much. A comforting pat on the back, holding the door for an extra minute while someone catches up to you. A comforting word to the parent standing in line at the grocery store who seems frazzled as their child is crying. If we could all do something like that for the Holidays we might just find the true meaning of the Holiday filling up inside of us. That is where the true meaning of the Holiday Season is. In your heart. Do not allow anyone to take it away from you. Keep your personal power inside of you.
When you give from your heart you are giving as God wants you to give.
Open your Hearts this Christmas Season and give someone your love.
Finding the Christmas Spirit is that simple.
Angel Amy
#20
What does Thanksgiving Day mean to you?
The majority of people now say something like: I used to like Thanksgving Day but it's gotten too commercial lately, so I don't like it as much as I used to.
If we keep letting society run our lives we will never get anywhere. We will never arrive at the place that has been prepared for us.
This kind of thinking will only move us backwards not forwards. Do we not want to move ahead in this world so we can find happiness? We cannot find happiness if we keep allowing others to think for us. If this is the way the majority of people are thinking then maybe I can shed some light on this way of thinking.
The people that think this way are giving away their personal power to society. Who is society? Who are the people making other people think this way? There is no one person out there making anyone think in any way that you are not choosing. We all have free will. That means we can choose to think the way we want to for ourselves. We can choose not to let society change our thinking and harden our hearts. We can choose to not let society come in and spoil our happiness. We can choose to be Thankful on this day and we can choose to keep the outside world where it belongs, outside.
Thanksgiving means to give and forgive. We can choose to forgive whoever society is made up of that has caused anyone to feel this way. We can forgive the retail industry for making Thanksgiving Day so commercial that we forget the true meaning of the day. We can forgive those who do not understand the true meaning of the day. That is what Thanksgiving is really all about. Giving thanks for what we do have. We have hearts for which we can give compassion and forgiveness to those who do not understand. We can find forgiveness for those who have lost their way and can no longer see what it is that we carry in our hearts especially on this day. For those people are missing out on the beauty of the day. It is such a wonderful day, how can anyone let another ruin it for themselves.
I hope you all will be able to see the true meaning of Thanksgiving Day in your heart and not allow anyone to take it away from you today or any other day.
I give thanks to the Lord for my heart that he has given me. The heart that allows me to give compassion and love to those who do not see things the way I do. Compassion and love to those who do not know how to truly give of themselves. Compassion and love to those who do not understand the true meaning of this day and every day. For it all is a gift from the Lord that I cherish and allow to grow inside of myself. The more I give love and understanding to those who do not understand, the more I see the love inside myself that is there just waiting for me to give.
I give Thanks, not only on this day but all the days still to come, for the grace that God has granted me to be able to see through his eyes with love and compassion for all.
I would also like to give and extra special Thank You to all our Military men and women serving our Country that give us our right to have our freedom. Our freedom of speech so we can share our words with each other so we can make this world a better place for all.
Thank You.
A Blessed Thanksgiving Day to everyone everywhere!
Angel Amy
#19
Why do people pretend to be something they are not?
Most people pretend because they are afraid of judgment from others. This is what keeps people from being their true selves. Fear plays a big part in how people act. When people can find their fear and release it they will be healing so much of their pain inside themselves.
Most people are afraid to be themselves for fear of being criticized by others who judge them. If we could all understand the harm we do to others when we judge someone, maybe there wouldn't be so many people walking around pretending to be who they are not. We all should be able to express ourselves in whatever way we are comfortable. Even if it means our neighbor does not like it. We are all here for different reasons and we are here to find happiness. We cannot be happy if we live in fear of being judged by another.
People that put on an act are only hiding. They are unable to let down their guard and be who they really are. Some tend to think and act like they are better than other people. This act is only an act of hiding from who they really are. They are afraid to show their true selves. They usually think that if they act like they are better than others that it will take away their fear of unworthiness.
People who live the pretend life are living a very unhappy life. They are not happy pretending. No one can be happy by pretending to be someone they are not. Your true self will not allow you to walk around this earth and pretend without letting you know you are being something other than yourself. It causes great sadness inside yourself when you walk around not being who you truly are.
People who are not happy with themselves need to find love for themselves. Until they come to terms with themselves as who they really are they will always feel they need to put on the act.
It's when they can look at themselves and accept who they really are and not worry about judgment from anyone that they will then find the happiness they are searching for. Happiness comes from being accepting of yourself and not allowing anyone to take that away from you.
So the next time you see someone who is pretending to be someone they are not, maybe you can look inside yourself and know that what you are really seeing is this person's fear coming out. Not the real person. If you can see this you will then be sending a message of unconditional love to this person on some level and on some level they will feel your message.
Angel Amy
#18
Why do people intentionally hurt other people?
When we see or hear of someone hurting someone we need to stop and remember what is going on here. Hurting people hurt others. No one ever truly intentionally hurts another person for absolutely no reason at all. There is always a reason. This reason lies within that person you see as doing the hurting. This person has emotions inside themselves that they do not know how to handle and it comes out into reality as anger or meanness. When you begin tounderstand this, you can take a step back and look at the bigger picture here. You can see that the one doing the hurting is feeling pain inside themselves. If you can see that maybe you can then begin to look at the person that is doing the hurting with a little bit of compassion which will then change your way of feeling that which you are seeing.
If you are looking at an incident where you see someone hurting someone else you need to understand that it is all in divine order. It is happening for a reason and it is between the people in the situation you are seeing. You need to step out of the emotions of what you are witnessing and not give away your personal power and feel the feelings that you feel when you see something like this happen. This is their reality and should not affect you in any way. When we can learn to realize this it does take away the pain of seeing such acts going on.
If you are the one being hurt you need to understand that you are only hurting yourself by looking at the situation in that way. You hurt yourself by giving away your personal power to allowing someone to hurt you. You are allowing them to hurt you because you are letting their opinion have more power than your own opinion of yourself. It is only your perception of what you think you see or feel that is hurting.
Standing in your personal power means not letting the words or actions of another person get inside of you. We are all here for our own reasons and that means to allow others to have their own experiences without judging them. We all have experiences that need to happen to us and its all about how we handle them that helps us to grow spiritually.
If you can stand in your own personal power every day you will find that no one can hurt you.
Angel Amy
#17
Why do people we work with tell lies about us to get ahead?
The people in your work that do tell lies have shown up in your reality because on some level you have attracted them into your life. You need to stay in your personal power and not allow what they say to affect you as it is all coming from you anyway. When those people see that the lies they tell about you do not affect you, they tend to see you in a stronger sense and those issues tend to go away.
The lies that people tell are not anything you can control but you can control the way you look at the situation. You can control the way you are feeling and thinking. If people are telling lies about you, on a spiritual level, they are there to show you that you need to change the way you are thinking and feeling about yourself. These situations occur to let you know that you are allowing others to attack you because you are feeling a sense of low self worth.
If your self worth is high enough not to allow negative emotions to get inside of you, you will find those people are just not around. It is all about what you think and how you feel that turns into what you attract into your reality. If you feel not worthy then you are, by law of attraction, attracting that which makes you feel more of being unworthy. When you feel worthy of yourself you will then attract more people who get along with you and who seem to like you.
This gossip that goes on is never about the other people. It is always about how you feel about yourself and the vibration/feelings that you give off to other people who come into contact with you.
Try doing a test of this theory. Put yourself in a place of high self worth and go into work and see what happens. Say some affirmations to yourself before you leave the house.
Such as, I am worthy, I am loved, everyone loves me. People want to be around me. I only attract loving people. Rate your self worth and see it being 100% worthy of love. Repeat the phrase, "Your opinion of me is none of my business". Because it really isn't and when you can believe that statement you can and will live a life where you do not allow anyone to take away your self worth. If you can believe this for one day you will be able to prove to yourself that it is your very own thinking and feeling that has allowed other people to treat you in a negative way.
Their opinion should not matter to you at all. When you allow the opinion of another to effect you, you are living in their world and not your own. Do not allow them in your world. When you can do this on a daily basis you will find people have all of a sudden changed or they just won't be appearing anymore. This change is only because you have changed your feelings about yourself. It has nothing to do with them and it never did.
Self worth is a very powerful emotion. When you can realize this you will find out how wonderful life can be. You will then be living in your world and not in anyone else's. Doesn't that sound like a nice place to be?
If another person does get ahead of you at work, understand that what went on was meant to go on. They were meant to get ahead. If you have your self worth in check and it's where it should be you will not have an issue with what you see going on around you. Try to accept that there is something better waiting for you as a result of this other person getting ahead. If you were meant to be the one to advance in your job you would. If you are not meant to, you will not. There is nothing you can do about it and you must continue to stay in your personal power and not let that get out as a result of negativity towards the other person. Things always happen the way they are meant to happen. Everything is always in divine order.
Angel Amy
#16
Why are some people more giving than others?
You have to remember that we are all here for different reasons. There are some that are still learning about the act of giving. Not everyone has the ability to give. When people don't know how to give they just don't know how and that is probably a good indication of one of the things they came to earth to learn about.
The best way for someone to learn how to give is by watching others and understanding the feeling that comes with the act of giving. If you come into contact with someone who you feel is not as giving as you think they should be, then you will be teaching them by your example of giving. They will be learning from you and that makes you the teacher.
"When the student is ready the teacher appears."
Even though you may not have any idea what is going on at the time, when you are confronted with someone who doesn't give like you think they should, understand they are put in your path for two reasons. One is so they can learn from you. On some level they are witnessing what you are doing when they see you give. The second reason is so you can learn compassion. Compassion for someone who does not know what they are not doing correctly in your eyes. Compassion for someone you are judging on a conditional level.
We never find ourselves in any situation where we are not learning or teaching ourselves. All experiences are for a greater purpose. Especially when you do not see what is really going on in those moments.
What you are really doing is judging that person for not being like you. That is why we should never judge anyone for anything because we really don't know the reason behind what the other person is doing that we are placing judgment upon.
When you encounter a situation that makes you feel uneasy or just not right, what you need to do is reach for a better feeling thought. For example, when you are in the company of someone who you feel is not being very giving, try saying to yourself, I am a teacher for this person and this person is learning from me. Or you could say, even though I see this person as not a very giving person, I understand that maybe this person does not know how to give. Maybe this person did not have the same upbringing as I did and just does not know how to give as I do. Maybe something happened in their past that kept them from being able to now give. Maybe they never had enough growing up and giving was not part of their lifestyle.
Any of those statements should make you feel better and when you feel better about a situation you are not allowing emotion to get inside of you and cause you harm. You will then be able to keep the negativity out of your body where it belongs. For those are the emotions that we allow to get inside of ourselves that cause us the most harm. Release the judgment and you will have released a great deal of pain for yourself. Try to apply some understanding to people who do not act the same way you do for you do not know the real reason they do not act as you do.
When you try to be the best person you can be by not allowing others to take away your personal power you will find that others will see something in you that they wish they had themselves. Give your understanding to the other for not being like you and Forgive the other for not knowing how to give like you and you will have acquired spiritual growth that can only be found inside of yourself.
It is all about the experience that we each as individuals are having during this journey here on earth. When you take away the judgment you take away the blinders that cover up your spiritual awareness and you find yourself able to give compassion as a result of your awareness. When you do this you will find you are able to give as you wish to be given to.
Angel Amy
#15
Why do people intentionally hurt others?
So often we tend to judge people who hurt others. If we can take a closer look at what is really going on with what we are seeing we may be able to see a little better with compassion and understanding. People who are hurt themselves, have a wall that has been built up inside of them that has made them do something that we see as hurtful.
People don't intentionally hurt others for no reason. The people who hurt others are themselves hurt. You could say that hurting people hurt others. They are so caught up in the hurt they are feeling that they cannot see clearly enough to see what they are actually doing.
When hurting people lash out, it can only hurt you if you allow it to. You are giving away your personal power to someone else if you allow this to happen. You are allowing the thoughts and actions of another to over ride your self worth. You have to remember the phrase,
"Your opinion of me is none of my business."
If you can remember that in the middle of what you call a hurting experience then you will be able to get through it without giving your personal power away. For it is only that opinion of the other person that is really lashing out to you that you have to deal with.
If you can look at the person who is hurting you, see if you can stop and just imagine what that person is feeling inside of themselves in order for them to lash out and cause pain to you. If you could maybe step into their shoes for one minute you would surely understand why they are so angry and why they are hurting you. No one truly wants to hurt another person. It's only when hurting people allow the anger inside of them to build up that it is finally released in a fit or rage that causes pain to another person. People who hurt others are not in balance with themselves. They are out of alignment with who they really are and the pain they are feeling is what has caused them to be out of alignment. Hurting people do not mean to hurt other people.
Hurting people do not realize what they are doing in the moment that they hurt someone. That is why they say they are sorry later on, because that anger was not really them. That anger was something inside of them that needed to be released and you just happened to be the one in their path when it was released. Because you were the one in their path it really means you had a lesson to learn from that incident. You were meant to witness that hurt in order for yourself to learn something from it.
There are never any situations that we find ourselves in that are not in divine order. Everything happens as it should according to the lessons or experiences you need to have. In the experiences where we find ourselves being hurt try and understand it is only something that we needed to go through in order to learn something from it. Whether it is compassion or forgiveness or just plain love. There is a reason for that experience.
When you can look at your experiences and understand the meaning of them you will find that you yourself have just released something. But that something that you will have released is called love.
Angel Amy
#14
I can't seem to get through to my child who insists on living his life in such a different way than I do. How can I find balance in our home?
You are fighting a loosing battle here. What you want your child to do is live his life so you can be happy. Parents need to understand that children are here to live life for themselves not for the parent. When you let go of the ties you will feel the tension release. The more you hold onto the ties the more you will cause resistance between you and your child. Isn't the real issue here about how the both of you can get along in your home and continue to both live the way you both want to.
If you can look at this situation a little differently you may come to the understanding that you can have balance. A lot of the time parents think that their children are meant to come into this world and be just like them or follow in their footsteps and even take on the family business that has been around for generations.
You need to step out of that belief. This is not what life is meant to be. We are all here to live our own lives the way we see fit. Parents are guardians. The job of a guardian is to guide and be there for support and love. This is a job that is to be done on an unconditional level. What you are here to do as a parent is to allow your child to make their own decisions. This starts at an early age. The sooner they can learn to make their own decisions the better they will be able to make their own decisions out in the real world later on in life when you may not be there for help.
When a child does something that the parent sees as wrong, this is where the parent begins to go off track. For a child that has come into being on earth is here to make mistakes as well as make the right choices. We learn best from our mistakes. Mistakes are not wrong choices. They are choices that someone makes so they can learn from that choice. Whether that be a choice about what to wear, what to buy, what to eat, what to think, anything that is a decision requires a choice to be made. The choice needs to come from that individual so they can learn from the choice they are making. If they make a choice on their own and find out it is not what they really want then something has been learned here and it is in no way a mistake.
A mistake or a wrong choice is only a judgment that we place upon others when we cannot see the real reason this so called mistake needed to take place. A mistake is only an experience that humans go through to learn from and should not be judged as something that is bad or wrong. A mistake when made at a young age is actually a blessing so that person can learn from it and move on to the next lesson or experience he or she needs to conquer.
Allowing your child to make his/her own decisions only strengthens them for the real world once they have grown to get out there. Allowing your child to be the person they truly are lets them live their life without feeling they are disappointing anyone. You give your child great strength and security when you are able to allow them to make their own choices.
There really are no mistakes. We all learn from everything that we experience. When you take the judgment out of the experience you can look at the situation with a little more acceptance and maybe even flow towards a feeling of unconditional love.
All the choices anyone needs to make come from within ourselves. That is where our self esteem comes from. When we are given the gift of making our own choices without judgment or criticism that is when we are able to be the whole person we are meant to be.
The next time your child does something you think is wrong or you judge as a mistake, stop and take a look. See if you can say to yourself, ok, that was just an experience he/she went through in order to learn something from it. See if you can just look and not say a word, look and just smile as if it's ok. For in your silence you are sending a most powerful message of unconditional love to your child. You will be allowing your child to learn from a much higher level. That will be an experience that you both will cherish. You will feel the love that you have just shared that comes from a place you didn't even know existed.
Then you can then be proud of the parent you have become for you will have found the balance your were searching for in your home.
Angel Amy
#13
I always help others but they don't seem to help me in the same way. Why do I always feel like a victim of being the nice guy?
When you give help to someone and expect them to return that help you are turning yourself into a victim. A victim is someone who feels that someone else has taken something away from them. That something that others take from you is called your personal power.
If they have asked for you help and you give with the intention that you will get something in return later, then you are not coming from a place of unconditional love. This is the only place you can come from when you are helping someone if you do not want to become a victim.
You need to give without expecting anything from them later on down the road. If you give freely of yourself, you are giving from a place of love. If you get something in return later on down the line then that is a gift to you.
Whenever you give of yourself, you must always give from a place of unconditional love. For if you don't and the person does not show you their appreciation later that will only cause pain inside of you. The pain shows up inside of you not inside of them. That is why you want to always give and not expect anything in return. If you cannot do this, then just don't give. Even if they say they will repay you. You still need to give unconditionally. That way if something happens and they cannot repay you, it will not affect you on the inside.
If you do not really want to give something to someone then don't. If you do give when you truly do not want to give that is what turns you into a victim. You are a victim because you have put yourself in the position to allow someone to disappoint you.
The only way to give is to give from the heart. Unconditionally. This way you will not find yourself giving with expectations that will later cause you pain. No one can hurt you when you give from your heart. The whole world will hurt you if you give something with the expectation of receiving something in return.
When you freely give from a place of unconditional love you free yourself of the negative feelings you will feel if you do not receive that which you are expecting to be returned to you from your act of giving.
You are the one who is setting yourself up to be a victim. You feel like a victim because you have allowed someone to take away your personal power. You have done this by giving with conditions.
Can you see how you create your own reality? You created being victimized by not giving unconditionally. If you do not want or can't give to someone without expecting something in return then do not give to them in the first place. It is not being selfish if you do that. That is called taking care of yourself and keeping your personal power where it belongs, inside of you.
You will find that you are thought of a great deal more when you can learn to give unconditionally. When you give from your heart, what you are giving is between you and God not between you and that person. For it really doesn't matter what the recipient of your giving does with your gift. All that really matters is that you gave with an open heart. This is what is known as being divinely guided. If you can learn to give unconditionally you will see that when you give from that place, no one on earth can take anything away from you and no one will ever be able to make you feel like a victim again.
You give away your personal power when you give with expectations.
You empower yourself when you can give from a place of unconditional love.
Angel Amy
#12
I am wondering when I will finally find my soul mate.
You will find your soul mate when you are happy with yourself. What you have inside of yourself is what you are sending out. If you are unhappy with yourself in some way then you will keep attracting people that are not your match. For when you can finally love yourself and be happy with yourself it is then that the person who is perfect for you, will show up.
When you are not happy with yourself you have a different vibration going on inside of yourself. Your vibration gives off signs that you are not in alignment with your higher self. When you are out of alignment that is what you will attract, people who are out of alignment with you.
It is not another person who completes the other half of you, it is the other person who adds to the whole of you. We came to earth whole and complete with the understanding that we are to love ourselves and do what we can to be happy in this great big world.
What you need to do is clear away the programming in your mind that tells your heart that you are not whole and complete without someone else in your life. The truth is, that you are whole and complete just the way you are. You are meant to find a mate for sure, but only after you have come to terms with loving yourself fully and completely. That is when you find true happiness.
If you do not learn how to fully love yourself you will keep finding people that come into your life that only make you happy for a short while. If you have something in you that you cannot clear up you will keep giving off the vibration that you are not in balance and you will then keep attracting the people that will not make you happy. You need to clear up whatever it is inside yourself that keeps giving off that vibration of being out of balance and then you will be able to attract someone that you are able to be happy with.
That is why people who are in love or think they are in love, find that their relationship ends only after a short time. As you get to know someone you find out they are not at all like you at all. This happens because your vibration was out of balance with the true you that you really are. Your vibration was that of someone who needs to work on feelings of self worth in order to truly find the person that will match that vibration. When you are happy with yourself that is when you are able to attract someone who is happy with themselves. You will both be able to give whole heartedly the love that you both are searching for.
We all need to stop and take time for ourselves. For we came into this world by ourselves and we will leave by ourselves. When we can truly look deep inside ourselves and give off the vibration of being complete that is when our soul mate will arrive.
Angel Amy
#11
There are so many changes happening in our world today. Why are there disasters going on such as floods and fires.
What you are seeing is your perception of disaster. When you arrive at the place in your mind and your heart that truly understands that all is in divine order you can then take a different look at that which you call a disaster. The disasters you are referring to are all just part of Mother Earth clearing out the old and allowing the new to enter. With any disaster there is always a new beginning which follows it.
The earth is experiencing many changes on many levels now. Those experiences you are referring to need to happen in order to get rid of that which no longer serves the earth. Mother Earth is just shedding the old in order to get ready for the new. If you look at disaster as being in divine order, you may be better able to understand what is really going on. In order for us to grow in this universe, change needs to happen. Whether or not we see it as good or bad is again our own perception. Either way, change will occur regardless of our opinion of it.
We need to trust that there are reasons that we cannot see, for these disasters going on. Reasons that go beyond what the human level of understanding is capable of seeing as good. For it is all good that is going on in our world. There are reasons for everything that happens. You are just choosing to see it in the negative light. You can stay where you are and keep seeing life as one disaster after another or you can dig deep into your soul and know that what is really going on has a greater purpose than what you are aware of.
If you can change your thinking here you can begin to pull yourself out of that negative place you have been so tangled up in for so long. Change your thinking of the way you see your world and your world may not look quite as bad as you think it is.
If we don't like what we see, we need to change our thinking. Change our perception of that which we are seeing. When we can change our thinking the things we see will change. This is how you take something you see as bad and change it into good. You can change anything you want just by changing your thinking and changing your perception of it. It is your choice to either stay in the negative way of thinking or come around to the positive side that all is in divine order and understand that you just cannot see what the reasons are at this time.
When one door closes another one opens.
When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change.
When you see the bad side of things, understand that there is always a good side.
The death of one thing is only the birth of another.
Angel Amy
#10
Why do I feel lost in this great big world and why does it seem that no one understands me?
You feel lost because you are looking for something outside of yourself that can only be found on the inside of yourself. That is why you feel lost. Most people tend to think that their happiness is found out there somewhere but that is not true. Happiness is found in the very core of your being. Deep in your soul. It is when you can understand, that in order to find true happiness and contentment you need to go inside. Life isn't really about searching for your happiness, life is about living it. In order to find the happiness you are searching for you have to understand that you are a divine being that came forth to earth to have an experience. An experience of growth and fulfillment that goes beyond what the human eye is capable of seeing. When you can stop and live for the moment you will be allowing your true essence to appear.
When you can live your life for yourself and no one else you will find the happiness you are searching for. We are all here to live life for ourselves not anyone else. That is one thing that seems we have been taught the opposite of. Because when we do stop and try to live our own lives the way we want, it seems that there is always someone saying something about the way we are living. That is when the people come out of the wood work to criticize us for doing what we want to do.
When that happens, you need to just let them have their say and walk away and keep your feelings within you and not let others take away your self worth. For that is what happens when you allow the opinion of others to effect your being, your self worth gets damaged. When you can recognize that this is happening, you can practice putting up a barrier that keeps out those opinions of others that you do not need coming into your being and affecting you.
Repeat this phrase to yourself the next time you are confronted with the opinions of others. "Your opinion of me is none of my business". If you can live by this phrase you will find it makes life so much nicer.
You feel like no one understands you because you are looking to others for your selfworth. You are not looking inside yourself for the real you. You feel you don't fit in because you have not allowed your true feelings to come to surface. When you do allow your true self to come out you will see that people will begin to find you. For you are attracting what you are putting out. When you have only been putting out a front of yourself and not your true self that is what you will be attracting. People who are not like you because you are not living the true you. When you come to find the true you inside yourself you will then begin to attract the people who are meant to be with you in this lifetime. You will attract the people that are like you, the true you and not the fake you.
It is when you can learn to go inside and be the person you are truly meant to be without allowing the influence of others to affect you that you will finally find the happiness you are searching for, and you will then see that you are worth living for.
Angel Amy
#9
There is so much changing in my life right now. My job has changed locations, my friends have left for other positions and life just seems to be getting worse for me.
How can I keep my head on straight?
If we can stay positive we can accept these changes more easily. It's when we fight the changes that life seems to get harder for us to accomplish our goal. When things in our world look different than what we want we need to stop looking outside ourselves and go inside. We need to look at our feelings. We cannot change the things we see outside of ourselves, but we can change the way we react to the things we see that we do not like. There is a lot of reality that most people see that they do not like. That is when you need to go inside. Go inside and have a conversation with yourself. Tell yourself that what you see going on out there may not be to your liking but you are able to accept that which you see as something you do not know the answer to. If you are in a situation that you cannot control then understand that what needs to change here is your thinking. That is the part of you that you can control. You all have the ability to control your own thoughts and if you are seeing something you do not like or do not understand then change your thinking. Say to yourself, I do not understand what is happening here but I do know that it is all of Gods work and he does know the reason this is happening and if this is the case, then I need to just accept that what I am seeing is in divine order.
Life is all about the experiences you are having. Good or bad. Which, they really aren't good or bad at all. They are just things you need to experience. If you see things as bad you need to change your thinking to make it good. The good in anything is what you are striving for. Change the bad to be good. You can do this.
Okay, so your job is changing, and with change means meeting new people and letting go of old friends and moving into a different area. This can sometimes be scary if you allow it to be that. But if you look at this in a different way and change your thinking you can change those bad feeling and thoughts into good feelings and thoughts.
The way you do this is to look for the opportunity in each day that comes to you. Find the good in every situation you can. Where there is bad there must be good. It's up to you to choose which way you look at your life. Life is all about change. If you are in this world you will continue to change. If you can understand that change is all about growing, learning and understanding you may see life a little better. You cannot make something bad become something good without changing your thoughts. That is your first step to achieving an understanding of what life is all about.
The friends you have that have now left were with you in good times and bad times. They were there to give you encouragement and support. Look at the leaving of your friends as this is something they were meant to do, on a soul level, so you could now begin to work on this human trait by yourself. This is all happening because you have now grown into a place where you are ready to do just that. You are now ready to begin the next chapter of your life. That is why your friends had to leave. By their leaving it will in turn help you to see that yes, you can do this on your own now. That was part of their mission while here on earth, to help you change. You have grown to the place where you are now able to stand tall and be the person you are meant to be by coming to earth. And it is only by your friends leaving you that you can take a good look at yourself and see this.
You are ready to enter into the next phase or chapter of your life. And if you can do this with eagerness and willingness you will make your new experience a better one than what you have already anticipated. Do not let this new opportunity pass you by without you being able to give it your all. Take your best shot at being the best you can be and release any negative thoughts that come into your mind at this time. You have the ability to see that which is outside of yourself is just a reflection of that which is inside of yourself. When you can see peace in any situation, peace and understanding, that is when you will find peace inside of yourself. That will be when you have truly conquered the conflict of daily life and the fighting and chaos that goes on all around you.
You have to separate yourself from that which you see outside yourself and go inside and find the peace you have in there just waiting to come out. If you can hold your ground and not let the outside world get inside of you then you will find peace.
I am putting an additional message here to my three Nephews and one Niece who are all in the Military. A message to encourage them to stay on the path they have chosen no matter how hard it seems to be. For change will come soon.
Andrew, who is serving in the Air Force and is currently safe in the United States. Beth, who is serving in the Air Force and currently safe in the United States as well
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Mark, who is serving in the Air Force and Matt, who is serving in the Army are both over in Iraq at this time. I am sending extra Love and Light to them to give them the strength and wisdom they need to conquer their feelings of frustration for what they are witnessing and for the feelings of separation from their family and friends and to guide them into knowing that what they are doing serves a greater purpose than what they are actually experiencing on a human level.
What they are doing is experiencing life for their soul on a much higher level.
I am sending Angel Blessings to all four of my family members who have chosen this path for their soul purpose.
God Bless them all.
Angel Amy
#8
Every time I do something I fear I am making a wrong decision. Why do I always feel this way and what can I do to get through it?
Your fear is nothing more than your ego. Your ego is trying to get you to go off balance with your true self. There is nothing wrong with your decisions. We are all here on earth to make our own decisions and have our own experiences. On a spiritual level there is never a right or wrong way to do anything. The judgment of right and wrong is an ego based fear. It serves you no purpose.
Even when someone makes a wrong decision, or what they think is wrong, it is not that at all. It is a choice they made and then they need to look at the out come and learn from it. Choices are made so we can experience something on a soul level and we need to learn something from that choice. It is actually a good thing. The human eye sees this as wrong, when it truly is a good thing that has happened. It is something that we, as a soul, need to learn. Positive or negative, it is an experience we need to have.
The human eye sees an experience as a mistake and something that is wrong. The spiritual eye sees the experience as something that it needed to go through or to learn from. The human eye sees it as something we failed at but the spiritual eyes see it as something that needed to happen to us and our soul learned something that it needed to learn from that experience.
When we come to earth we have several experiences that we want to go through. These experiences require us to learn or just plain experience something. Sometimes the experience of just going through something in some way teaches our soul something. We choose to have these experiences and the spiritual eye does not see it as right or wrong. As long as we are learning something from the experience, our soul becomes that much more enlightened.
If we could take the word mistake and change it to the word experience, we would all be able to walk through life with a little more freedom from guilt. When we have done something wrong on a human level we tend to beat ourselves up for choosing that wrong experience. If we can look at it as an experience that our soul learned something from, doesn't that make you feel better about the whole thing that has happened to you and isn't that what we are all trying to achieve while here on earth, to feel better.
We all need to put aside our ego and our judgment. Those are human traits and do not serve us on a spiritual level. When you can start looking at life on a more spiritual level, you will see that things just seem so much clearer. We are here to have experiences but we are not meant to struggle quite as much as we all do.
It is always your choice to choose which way you want to see your life unfold. You can see all your experiences on the human level and judge whether or not they are right or wrong and feel the emotion from that judgment or you can look at your experiences on a spiritual level and know that whatever the choice you make, it is something that your soul needs to learn at that moment and just move on. When you have an experience, let go of the judgment of the experience being right or wrong for you. On a spiritual level you have done nothing wrong.
Try it the next time something happens to you and see if by looking at your experience on a spiritual level it helps you go through the experience a little better than as if you see it on a human level.
We are all spiritual beings having a human experience.
Angel Amy
#7
My best friend and I got into a silly argument last week.
I have known her almost all my life but she has now just walked out of my life.
I feel devastated. Why did this happen to me?
The reason we have people in our lives is to show us something, and to help us with our earth lessons. Your friends agreed to come to earth to help you learn something. When their job is done, they must, on a soul level, leave us.
Before you came down here, you agreed upon a certain lesson that you wanted to learn or an experience you needed to have. Friends are usually only in our lives until their mission with us has been completed. When this happens to us the best thing we can do is look at what it is that we learned from that person and forgive the situation that caused them to leave. For they did not leave out of hate or anger for us, they left because their soul purpose with us has been completed.
It does not make sense to anyone if you can only see this issue on a human level. Remember you are a spiritual being first, that came to earth for the human experience. So if you can look at this issue on a spiritual level you will see that all is in divine order. There is something from that friendship that you need to truly look at and learn from. There was a reason that person was in your life. A definite reason, but we cannot turn our back on the lesson we need to learn or it will come around again. It will just keep repeating itself over and over until we look at the issue and learn the lesson or see the experience as something that helped us in some way.
If you say that this keeps happening to you, that you find yourself having close friends that you come to trust and love dearly and then all of a sudden you have a disagreement about something silly, you can be assured that this is happening because you have not learned that, which it is, that you need to learn. Sometimes the lessons we need to learn are about how to love ourselves, or about how to forgive someone who has hurt us. Whatever the reason is, it is something we wanted to learn. Once you look at the situation and learn the lesson you will not encounter any more of these experiences. Your lesson will have been learned and you can move on with other areas of your life.
Everyone in our reality has already been chosen, by us in heaven. That is why they are in our reality. We are all here to learn and experience for our soul purpose. Not for the reality of life itself. These are earth lessons that we need to learn on a soul level. Sometimes we can see the lesson right away, other times it takes a while to see what we have just gone through and what the real meaning of it is. If you can view your life as a play that is being played out and you are directing this play, because you need to work on certain qualities that your soul needs to have in order to continue to grow in heaven, you will be able to walk through your situations easier.
It's your choice. You can either step up and see the spiritual occurrences going on and learn from them or you can stay where you are and have these occurrences keep evolving over and over. If you choose to stay where you are, eventually you will give in. You have to, because you cannot grow until you have learned that, which you have chosen to learn by coming to earth.
If you do understand what I have said, the next step for you is to forgive everyone involved. You did nothing wrong and they did nothing wrong. There is no blame to be thrown here. No one is at fault here. No one. It does not matter who said what or who started this situation. It happened because it was meant to happen. It was just a lesson you needed to learn and you must forgive and let go so this does not manifest inside of your being. You forgive by understanding on a soul level that this other person was really helping you to learn that which you came to earth to learn. Be thankful for the learned lesson and let go of it and move on with your life. If you can see the destruction as letting go of the past and starting new, you may find the road ahead of you is not that bad. With any destruction always comes rebirth. Let the new come into your life and do not hold onto the past. Let it go and only remember the good times. The good times are the only feelings you should be holding onto now. When you can do that you will find peace again inside yourself. The peace that you have been searching for that you now carry with you into the next chapter of you life. Even if you feel you are now alone. For being alone now lets you look at the person you really are. Look and see if you can find the growth in the person that you have become by having that person be part of you life.
The uncomfortable situations in our lives are only occurrences that are being played out as planned. If we can look at other people as characters that are playing the part of someone trying to show us our message that we need to learn, it may help you get through that which you thought was so terrible and help you see that you are growing as a spiritual being as well as a human being.
Angel Amy
#6
Why do so many people feel the need to take drugs to feel good?
Drugs are a material substance that people can get their hands on and pretty much get instant relief. Relief from whatever it is that is going on in their reality that they cannot handle.
When people take drugs it gives them an inner feeling. An inner sense of relief. But that relief only lasts for a short while. That is why they turn into addicts. Because they want more of that good feeling. That good feeling that they can only find on the inside of themselves. They are feeling the way they feel because they are forgetting about taking care of their soul. The part of their body that they feed with these drugs can actually get relief by changing their thoughts. They would then be on the path to recovery. They are only concerned with taking care of their outer body not their inner body. This is where healing starts. Inside not outside. All any drug addict wants, is to feel good. They just don't know how to achieve that without the drug. That is why they continue to turn to the drugs. The bottom line in anything that we do in life is ultimately to feel good. That is all any of us really want. That feeling that is so good, is something that is found on the inside of us. Not on the outside. To get a feeling of good inside yourself, don't you think that inside is where you should start to fix it? Inside yourself. When we can look inside ourselves that is when we begin to understand and become aware of who and what we truly are.
We all want to feel good but that feeling can only be found on the inside. It truly is an inside job. Life itself is an inside job. Everything comes from within us. It seems to be so hard for people do find their true self. All they have to do is stop and listen to their bodies. Your body will tell you exactly what is going on. But you have to listen. The part you have to listen to the most is your heart. Your heart has all the answers if you pay attention.
The things that make us happy are not found on the outside of us. Many people think that is where their happiness lies, but it doesn't. Happiness is a feeling you get on the very deepest part of your being, inside your soul. Material matter can never truly make you happy. Material matter only makes you happy for a short while then it soon disappears. True happiness is found in the heart. True happiness is found when you give from the heart and when you receive from the heart. There is no fooling the heart. That is why there are drug addicts today. Because the drug addicts are being thought to think the outside substance is what makes them happy. But it isn't. It's the inner feeling we feel that makes us happy. Drugs are only a temporary fix for the feeling. Loving is where the feeling of happiness truly comes from. You cannot purchase love.
"That which is seen in temporary, that which is unseen is eternal".
2nd Corinthians 4:18.
If we can find happiness inside ourselves then maybe we can begin to pass that same feeling along to our children. Our children are just following what they see in us. If we can show them how to be happy and look inside themselves for their answers then maybe this place called earth can grow into a place where people can start living the way they have always wanted to live. A place where they can be happy. A place where love can live.
When we feel that good feeling inside of ourselves that is when we will feel God.
I was guided to give this message this week. I know there is someone out there who needs to hear this. I do believe my Angels will see that the person in need of this message will receive it.
Angel Amy
#5
How do we see the good in the things that we are seeing as bad?
When something happens to us that we see or think is either bad, not working, not what we wanted to happen, or just plain unfair; we need to stop and look at the bigger picture here. We can't always see what is really going on. We think our world is falling apart, we feel lost, we don't know where to turn, we cannot believe this is happening to us. When things like this occur in our reality, you can be assured that you are being guided. If you look with your spiritual eyes you will see that the things that you think you want are not really what you want at all. Things begin to change when we are headed in the wrong direction. This is only divine guidance intercepting your reality. Pay attention and listen to what is really going on. Get your ego out of the way.
Don't forget what this word really means, ego = edging God out. e.g.o.
Allow things to unfold in your life. Let go of what you think you want to happen or what you think should happen. Release your judgment of what is going on and let God do his work. When you see things change in your life that are not good, this usually means you are heading down the wrong path. God is just turning you around. He is repositioning you. Pay attention to that and do not see it in the negative light. It is all good. Pay attention to the signs that you see. This is how God talks to us. This is the way he communicates with us as we are usually so closed minded that we do not allow him to enter into our thoughts. He will work with you if you let him. Allow him to be heard.
Everything is beginning to change in our world. We have to be open to what is going on that we cannot see. We need to start becoming aware of what is going on inside of us. Where is our hearts desire and why are we not following in that direction. Our hearts desire is the path we are all searching for. Why are we not on it?
Things are only negative if you see them as negative. If you see the things in your life as bad they will continue to appear bad. If you can see that the things you are looking at are in divine order and everything has meaning in your life that is when you will start to see the change in all that you see. It will suddenly seem like someone has turned on the light for you and you can now see that which you have had in your heart all along. This is called divine guidance. When you stop controlling that which you cannot control you will be releasing a good part of your ego. The part of you that is your ego is not for you highest good. When you see the good in the things you thought were bad, you will find you can walk through your issue and come out with a better understanding of what it is that you are really seeing.
You still have a choice. We all do. You can either stay in your negative thinking pattern or you can realize there may be another way to see this. Sometimes when bad things happen it is just that there is a lesson in there that we need to learn. Sometimes when we see something as being unfair there is still something we need to learn from that situation. But most of the time when something is not working for us, that purely means it is not right for us. We need to let go of the need for it or the thought that we need this situation to work out the way we want it to, because it never will. That is also what is referred to as divine guidance.
Let go or toss it out, or go around it, do anything besides staying in the moment of allowing this situation to manifest as negative thoughts inside of your body. Release it and move on to something that will bring you joy and happiness.
Once you can see clearly you will be able to recognize other situations when they happen, and you will be able to work those out as well and move on.
Angel Amy
#4
How can I find peace and healing in my life when everything around me is falling apart?
You can find peace by going inside, not outside. You are looking for material matter to give you peace. Material matter can never give you the true peace you are searching for. Peace is one of those things that cannot be seen.
"That which is seen is temporary, that which is unseen is eternal".
2nd Corninthians 4:18
When we can look inside ourselves and understand that this is where our peace lies then maybe we can move to the next step in our lives. We have to come to the understanding that we cannot control the things that go on around us. We can only control out thoughts and our reactions to what is going on. If you can hold onto the thought that things are happening in just the way they are suppose to happen, it may help you.
We all came to earth for our own reasons. We are all here to experience and to learn something different. If we can see that we are learning from the experiences that are happening to us, the experiences my make more sense. If you can take the experience you are having and truly look at it, look at it as if you are looking through a window at yourself and your experience, what do you see? Can you look and see that all is well and this is just something you need to go through? Can you see that if you could just be at peace with this situation it would fix itself? Can you see that there is a lesson to be learned here? Can you see that you are loved and cared for by God? Can you see that you are not walking through this situation alone? Can you feel love inside yourself?
Stop what you are doing and embrace that. Feel the love flowing inside your body. Feel the love that is being guided to you, feel the healing taking place inside of you.
This is a new day. Be at peace within yourself and allow it to flow from you. When all you have inside yourself is love, then love is what you will give to the world. That which you give, you will receive. The more love you can give to others, the more love you will find flowing into your world. When you allow love to flow, that is when you will begin to see your world come together. The things that you once saw as falling apart will look differently to you now that you are looking through your loving eyes.
Walk through your experiences. If there is a lesson to be learned, learn it so the lesson does not repeat itself, and keep yourself moving forward. You will find there is light at the end of the tunnel if you believe there is. Do not look at your life through negative eyes. The more negativity you see the more negativity you will attract into your life. Look at your life as something you are going through that you chose to go through. Take responsibility for yourself and your life.
Do not place blame anywhere. No one is to blame for anything going on here. Everything is happening the way it is suppose to happen. If you can accept this, then you have a better chance of finding the peace inside yourself that you are so desperately searching for. You have the ability to look inside yourself and find the peace you know is in there. When you find that peace within yourself you will find peace outside of yourself. That is also when the pieces to your life will find you.
There is much love and healing coming to each and every one of you within this message I am sending.
Angel Amy
#3
I keep applying for a job but the owner keeps telling me he is waiting for the right position to open up.
Several positions have opened but he tells me I am over qualified for them.
He says they are not tight for me even though I know I am qualified. What is really going on here?
When we see obstacles in our way it is just God letting us know that we are on the wrong path and he is asking us to take another path. When we fight something, that means we are out of alignment with what God wants for us. Obstacles are put in our path for reasons. They are road blocks that just mean we should go in another direction. This is the case for all road blocks we see. Whether it be a job, a relationship, something we are buying, something we want to do, anything. When we run into any kind of a block we should stop and look at what is going on. Can we see the message from God.
We have to watch for the signs. The signs that are sent by God to help us on our Journey. The road block is a sign we are not going in the direction where we need to be going. If you persist at trying to make your way through these road blocks you will only find yourself getting aggravated, frustrated and down right angry with the situation at hand. Even if you are lucky enough to get through a road block, God has a way of telling you that you still made the wrong decision. You will continue to find other road blocks after you have gone through the first one. If a job is not right for you, be assured you will be shown just that.
Have you ever come across a road block and said, Lord, why is this happening to me. Or, Why does this keep happening to me. When you keep seeing an obstacle in your way, again and again, it is only God speaking to you.
Your answer is very simple. It means, this is not for your highest good. You should turn around and go in another direction. Figure something else out, figure out another way of doing what you want to do, look at it differently, change your thinking. Try something else, or just wait a while and ask the Lord to show you a sign that you can follow into the right direction. If you ask, he will guide you.
When you are faced with being turned down for a job that you know you are qualified for, it is only God telling you that this is not the right one for you. He is saying this is not the one for your highest good and if you will allow him to help you he will show you the way. It could be that there is another job that is truly better than the one you are applying for. If we can let go and have faith that God does know what is best for us, he will show us the way. If we can trust what we do not see, if we can let go of our ego, if we allow God to enter into our hearts and have patience, we will then find the happiness we are searching so desperately for.
Angel Amy
#2
"Why are some people mean and down right ignorant to other people -
how do we deal with them and not let them hurt our feelings?"
Understand, that when someone is mean, rude, ignorant, or whatever, to you, that this is something that has been put in front of you on purpose so you can learn something from it. If you can think of your life as a Play. Being played out and you are the director and the other person is the cast member. The cast member has already been selected by you in heaven, before you came down here. This person is your friend in heaven. This person is here to help you learn something that you needed to learn in this lifetime.
The ones you despise the most are most likely your closest spiritual friends in Heaven. It is not by chance that this person is in your life. They are definitely here for a reason. The reason is for you to learn from the situation. If you see someone as being mean to you, then ask yourself, what is it in me, that I am mean to someone else about. What have I been doing in my life that someone else may see me being mean about. When you can truly look inside yourself and find the answer and bring it out into the light to deal with yourself, then you will find that the mean people in your life go away or just plain change.
Try and look at what it is that is being challenged here and you will see that which you need to learn. It could be to love yourself more, it could be to accept yourself more, it could be to stop judging other people, it could be to forgive. Whatever the reason, you answer lies in what you think you are seeing. Do you ever find a situation where you think someone is being mean but others around you cannot see the same thing. That is because the lesson is for you and not the others that are with you. If there are people with you that can also see the meanness, then the lesson is also for them as well.
The people in your issue really aren't being mean. They are just being there so you can see what you need to work on while you are here on earth. If you do not address this and clear it up, if you avoid it in some way, you will find this issue coming up later on down the road. It will just keep repeating that, which you are seeing as being mean. It will haunt you until you have learned the lesson. You have already told all the participants in this issue that you needed to learn this lesson while on earth, playing out this reality and everyone involved has agreed to help you learn that, which it is, that you need to learn.
You need to change your thinking about them.. It is all about you and not about them, at all. Right now they are mirroring back that which you see inside yourself. When we see meanness in someone else that is a sign for us to stop and take a good look at what it is inside of us that we think we are mean about. This goes for any other quality that we see in someone else as well. This goes for the good as well as the bad.. If we see others as loving people then we are reflecting that which we have inside of ourselves.
We give to others, that, which we have inside ourselves.
You deal with them, by learning the lesson here. As soon as the lesson is learned, the situation will go away or stop. When the lesson is learned you need to forgive all parties involved. You need to forgive yourself and the other person. The act of forgiving someone clears the air. You release a great deal of negativity which has not been for your highest good. You will feel the change.
Angel Amy
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Should we accept invitations to functions that we really do not want to attend?
No, we should not.
When we accept an invitation to something, no matter what it is, Wedding, anniversary, cookout, house party, dinner, anything, if we truly do not want to go, we should not.
Why? Because when we go to something that is not going to make us happy, we are not following our own path. When we go to something that our heart truly is not in line with, it will cause us to have other feelings that are not good for our bodies. When we would rather be doing something else we are only denying our own happiness.
If we go because we do not want to hurt the feelings of the other person, we are not being true to our self. It is not wrong or rude of us if we do not attend an invitation that we do not want to attend.
If the other person does get hurt by our decision, we are not to blame. There is no blame here, it is just each persons own self worth being brought out. I don't mean to say that we shouldn't be helping people. Of course we should, but only if our heart truly wants to... I am only referring to the times that our heart just is not in agreement with a situation. We cannot live to please others. Pleasing someone is different than helping someone.
One of my favorite sayings is by Wayne Dyer, "Your opinion of me is none of my business".
I love that... Because it is your opinion that is separate from me, and I should not allow the opinion of someone else to take away my self worth.
We do not mean to hurt anyone by refusing an invitation. If the other person gets hurt, it is only because their self worth is not as strong as it should be. It is just my decision for me to accept or not accept, for whatever reason. My reasons are mine. Not the other persons.
We are here to live to make ourselves happy, we are not here to live to make others happy. Each person needs to find their own happiness and allow others to be themselves without judgment, even though we do not know the reasons why. When we do this, that is when we can share and offer ourselves to others more fully. That is when we start to become complete within ourselves.
We need to look at our own self worth. We should not rely on others to make us happy. Our happiness comes from within ourselves, not outside of ourselves. We need to let it go and understand that all is in divine order. The answer that one person receives from an invitation should never be judged.
When we are not happy inside ourselves, we are limiting the flow of happiness and therefore, unable to share happiness with others. When we are happy, we have more love within ourselves that we are then able to share with others.
This is just one step to finding peace inside ourselves.
Angel Amy
